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FEATURE: Sauna Jak

Jak tells Gscene what its like working as a trans guy in an all-male sauna.

“My name is Jak. I’ve worked on the scene at the Brighton Sauna for two and half years now and I love it. It’s varied, entertaining and ultimately I get to meet a lot of different people. They get to meet me too. You see, I’m a trans guy and as far as I know, the only openly trans guy who works in an all-male sauna in the country (I’d love to be wrong about that).

I came to the job the same way a lot of people find a job – I asked a friend, and now colleague, if there was anything going there. I had just moved back to the area and was sofa surfing so I needed an income quick. I was staying with him at the time, and had never really stepped foot onto the scene but was definitely intrigued by his job. I asked how to apply on the off-chance and he gave me Paul, the owners email. I had no idea what a sauna was but I thought working in an environment with other men would help with my gender dysphoria.

Past experience with gay men gave me the feeling going into it that I was going to have to educate, which made me all the more determined to get the job. The interview was just the start of that process really.

When I first sat down in the office with Paul, he asked me for all the usual ID and documents except all I had was my old ID and a deed poll. I didn’t know how or when to mention it until he asked if I had been married, hence the deed poll. I decided right then to just go for it and told him “I’m trans” and we tend to do that sort of thing.

I half expected the interview to end right there, I was so nervous. It’s hard to predict how someone will react when you out yourself as trans. He paused, looked at me, looked away and back again and then said; “Oh. Well I guess we’ll have to write some policy about that,” and then we just carried on. I can’t begin to tell you the relief I felt, like I’d passed some sort of test and by the end I was offered the job.

All of a sudden I was a sauna boy. I didn’t ‘pass’ very well at the beginning. Nearly every shift for the first six month or so I was misgendered or asked if it was weird being a girl/lesbian working in a sauna. An ironic question since I’ve never identified as a lesbian or been on the lesbian scene. At the same time I was trying very hard to learn the job and prove everyone wrong who thought I wouldn’t last in the job.

Very early on it was easier to just out myself and be openly trans. It didn’t stop all the misgendering but it did help to stop it faster. Of course this meant I now took on the role of educator. I ended up drawing from experiences in my previous job as a telephone fundraiser in order to help me communicate my story to people. It’s a very different line of work but the soft skills I learned, such as objection handling, mirroring and learning to read people fast so I could adapt my approach, all came in handy when talking to customers and colleagues.

Most people in my experience aren’t asking inappropriate questions out of malice but out of ignorance and I realised that it’s easier for people to connect to an idea if it’s standing right in front of them in person rather than reading about it on a screen. I’ll admit, it gets tiring sometimes especially if it’s a busy night and the towels are piling up but I consider it just as much a part of my job now as anything else I do at the sauna.

Fast forward two and a half years later and I think I’ve made my mark in my own small way. I’ve managed to reach a large audience of gay men and let them know that trans (and gay!) men exist and we’re just like any other guys. I’ve been able to talk to a lot of people about all kinds of issues surrounding trans men, non binary people and trans women. They’ve all got to know me as a person, one of the guys, and I’m not a curiosity or unknown quantity anymore.

Paul and my colleagues have all been great supporters, especially by giving me the means to make the scene more accessible to trans people by letting me start our new trans-exclusive night on the fourth Monday every month. We’re such a unique venue and the perfect place to host a safe and body positive space that’s free from harassment where no one has to explain themselves. Plus it allows people to use things like a jacuzzi or sauna, things they feel like they might not get to use otherwise.

All things considered, I’m lucky that I work in a place that’s supportive, affirming and taught me a lot about the kind of man I am. I’m not ashamed of what I am and I’m privileged enough not to have to hide it. I think most of my regulars have forgotten that I’m trans in truth and now I’m just the guy that’s there every weekend on the night-shift, looking after all my boys.”

Brighton Fringe Preview: BoxedIn Theatre presents WOOD

Camping is all fun and games. Until someone dies.

Following their 5 star smash-hit production of Romeo and Juliet, BoxedIn presents WOOD, an explosive piece of new writing that examines gender constructions, sexual labels, and what to expect when you go camping.

When a group of students arrange their Spring holiday, they’re pretty sure that they’re in for a nice, relaxing break. It’s a camping trip, right, what could possible go wrong? But when Tom discovers Nick lying dead in the middle of the camp-site, the trip takes a turn that none of them could have expected.

This summer, BoxedIn Theatre Company will be welcoming you on to the camp site to scrutinise the way that gender and sexuality is constructed in their newest production – WOOD. Audiences will join 6 students on a camping trip that goes horribly wrong, and will be whisked through the group’s history to ultimately ask – how well can we ever really understand ourselves?

And if the first performance catches your interest, come back the next night for something completely different. The show will be alternating between straight and queer performances, with actors playing characters of their own gender one night, and playing across genders the next. Be treated to two completely different productions of the same show, and watch as the way that gender is performed every day is brought to light.

All of this will be taking place in the context of an entirely new performance genre – BoxedIn developed the ‘Immersive-Lite’ style for WOOD, in the hope of creating a deeper connection with their audience by bringing them right in to the location where the story takes place.

Oli Savage, Artistic Director of BoxedIn Theatre, said: “Immersive theatre is incredibly powerful – it creates engaging pieces of theatre by bringing audiences right in to the location where the story takes place, in a way that is both challenging and entertaining. Immersive-Lite takes this one step further by bringing that location to them.

“We realised early on that we’re discussing a lot of important issues with WOOD, so we started asking ‘can we find a way to harness the power of this enchanting and unique genre while communicating with a wider group of people than usual?’ Someone had the idea of taking the show on tour, which seemed crazy at first, but the more we thought about it, the more it made sense. So the ‘Immersive-Lite’ style grew from that, and we’ve ended up with a show that can create deep and meaningful connections with a wide variety of audiences.”


Event: BoxedIn Theatre presents WOOD

Where: New Steine Gardens, New Steine, Brighton, East Sussex BN2 1PB

When: May 22 – June 4

Time: 7pm

Cost: Free

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Brighton Diversity Games to include Same-Sex Dance Championships

Brighton Diversity Games, organised by BLAGSS, Brighton LGBT Sports Society, will take place over the weekend of July 8 and 9, 2017.


The Games include Same-Sex Dance Championships, which comprises two sessions and will take place at the Mandela Hall, University of Sussex, Brighton, BN1 9RH on Saturday, July 8.

The Morning Session from 11am–3pm will include the Women’s Ballroom and Men’s Latin competitions.

The Afternoon Session from 4pm–8pm will include the Men’s Ballroom and Women’s Latin competitions.

The closing date to enter is July 5, 2017.

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A BLAGSS spokesperson, said: “Spectators are very welcome and make a valuable contribution to the atmosphere of the day. There will be opportunities for social dancing throughout the day and a guest appearance from the Sugar Dandies, as featured on Britain’s Got Talent.”

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A small number of tickets may be available on the door.

A Golf Tournament will take place on the Downland Course at Hollingbury, Brighton on Saturday, July 8 from 8.30am with tee times from 9.30am.

Golfers are invited to take part in the individual Stableford competition and the tournament is open to men and women with a congu or society handicap of 36 or lower.

The tournament will be played at two levels: the Pride Shield – for those with a congu handicap; and the Rainbow Challenge – for those with a society handicap. There are Men’s and Women’s competitions within both categories.

To enter, click here:

The entrance fee includes course fees, entrance, prizes and refreshments, including coffee and bacon (or egg) roll on arrival.

Full locker room facilities will be available at the clubhouse along with plenty of parking.

REVIEW: Queer British Art 1861-1967 @Tate Britain

This year marks the fiftieth anniversary of the passing of the Sexual Offences Act, which decriminalised consensual sex (in private) in England and Wales between men aged 21 and over.

Henry Scott Tuke: The Critics © Leamington Spa Art Gallery & Museum
Henry Scott Tuke: The Critics © Leamington Spa Art Gallery & Museum

In commemoration and celebration of this landmark legislation, and with a mission to continue to push for positive change, Tate Britain has put together an impressive retrospective of what it calls queer British art, though in some cases the art in question has a queer sensibility as opposed to being overtly created, commissioned or promoted by people who might have empathised with or self-defined as what we now call LGBTQI.

The show includes works from a period of over 100 years, and is bookended by the 1861 Offences against the Person Act, which abolished the death penalty for sodomy, and the ground breaking 1967 legislation.

Given the scope of this exhibition and the dramatic shifts in attitudes, society, science and law which span these years, this collection has to be seen as a snap shot rather than a definitive selection of queer British art. But as snap shots go it is at once panoramic and detailed, and provides a diverse showcase for some defining and important works of art, in this queer sphere of interest and beyond.

The show is spread over eight themed rooms and broadly runs chronologically.

In the first room many of the studies include images of beautiful young men and women which seem loaded with ambiguities that leave the works open to homoerotic interpretation.

Simeon Solomon: Sappho and Erinna in a Garden at Mytilene © Tate Britain
Simeon Solomon: Sappho and Erinna in a Garden at Mytilene © Tate Britain

They range from Henry Scott Tuke’s voyeuristic oil paintings of boys bathing, to the beautiful and heart-breaking paintings and drawings of Simeon Solomon and Sydney Harold Meteyard, whose works here evoke a resignation and despair perhaps caused by lost or unfulfilled same-sex desire and love.

Charles Buchel, Radclyffe Hall, 1918 © National Portrait Gallery
Charles Buchel, Radclyffe Hall, 1918 © National Portrait Gallery

The exhibition moves on to cover public indecency, looking at how public debate over sexuality and gender identity was stirred up by scandals, campaigns and scientific studies. It references the trials of Oscar Wilde and Radclyffe Hall and includes striking portraits of both protagonists, as well as memorabilia relating to Wilde’s imprisonment, notably the infamous calling card left by the Marquis of Queensbury which contained the damning accusation: “to Oscar Wilde posing as a sodomite.” Other notable exhibits include a portrait of Aubrey Vincent Beardsley alongside some of his sexually explicit drawings, and portraits of pioneering sexologist Henry Havelock Ellis and radical free-thinker and author of Homogenic Love, Edward Carpenter.

The next room looks at how queer perspectives could find public expression on the stage, and poses the question as to how far audiences were aware of their idols’ sexual personas and preferences, be they matinee heart-throbs or variety hall male and female impersonators.  There’s a wonderful selection of publicity photographs, including the late Victorian ‘Funny He-She Ladies’ Fanny and Stella, Vesta Tilley’s much loved Burlington Bertie, and a spectacularly glamorous shot of Danny La Rue, who we learn preferred the term ‘comic in a frock’ to female impersonator.

Bloomsbury and Beyond looks at the artists and writers who famously ‘lived in squares and loved in triangles’ as they pushed the boundaries of what might be considered ‘normal’ relationships and created honest, unashamed art and literature that reflected their loves, passions and beliefs.

Duncan Grant: Erotic Embrace c.1950, Charleston House Trust, Lewes, UK © Estate of Duncan Grant
Duncan Grant: Erotic Embrace c.1950, Charleston House Trust, Lewes, UK © Estate of Duncan Grant

The room contains a number of works by Duncan Grant, including paintings which he himself never publicly exhibited because of their explicitly erotic gay content. Grant’s other sensual though less sexually explicit paintings of men bathing hearken back to Henry Scott Tuke’s paintings earlier in the show, though now there is a much stronger sense of male community and homoeroticism. A sense of a utopian, same-sex community, this time of women, is also reflected in Dame Ethel Walker’s large-scale oil painting, Decoration: the Excursion of Nausicaa.

William Strang: Lady with a Red Hat 1918
William Strang: Lady with a Red Hat 1918

Women feature strongly in room five, both as artists and subjects. Here women artists are seen as defying convention, for example in their unapologetic eroticising of the naked female form, while in other paintings, such as Dorothy Johnstone’s Rest Time in Life Class, there’s again a representation of an idyllic and exclusive female community which is intimate and self-supportive.

This room also contains several portraits of famously strong, creative women who challenged gender norms and traditional relationships during this period. They include Vita Sackville-West, Virginia Woolf and Vernon Lee.

David Hockney: Going to be a Queen for Tonight, 1960 © Royal College of Art
David Hockney: Going to be a Queen for Tonight, 1960 © Royal College of Art

The exhibition moves on to cover London as an Arcadian epicentre for queer art and culture in the 1950s and 60s, and finishes with a room dedicated to Francis Bacon and David Hockney’s honest and defiant depictions of male same-sex desire which were in fact painted before the 1967 Act.

Francis Bacon: Figures in a Landscape, 1956-57, Birmingham Museum and Art Gallery (Birmingham, UK) © The Estate of Francis Bacon 2017. Photo: Prudence Cuming Associates Ltd
Francis Bacon: Figures in a Landscape, 1956-57, Birmingham Museum and Art Gallery (Birmingham, UK) © The Estate of Francis Bacon 2017. Photo: Prudence Cuming Associates Ltd

These latter years where a time when more people were self-defining as LGBT+ and seeing themselves as part of a flourishing queer community, with artists in relationships living openly together and some, like Joe Orton, even having a gay notoriety and celebrity.

But while works here by Bacon and Hockney are fearless, with Hockney even painting the word ‘queer’ into his 1961 painting Going to be a Queen for Tonight, the works of Keith Vaughn for example, though very beautiful, seem shadowy and ambiguous and linked to an awkwardness, furtiveness and even shame. In his diaries Vaughn referred to the ‘social guilt of the invert’, and despite the changing times he, like many others, still lived in fear of prosecution and even blackmail.

The exhibition mini guide cites that ‘this is a history punctuated by bonfires and dustbins’. No doubt many significant works have been destroyed, lost, or never saw the light of day up to 1967 and indeed beyond.

Tate Britain’s chairman writes in his forward to the book accompanying the exhibition: “Our ability to bring together a collection of queer British Art and to expose our audience to a once taboo topic demonstrates the progress made in the last fifty years. But the fact that this is the first exhibition of its kind shows that society has yet to fully accept LGBTQ+ culture.”

It’s a sobering thought. We should all celebrate and support this exhibition and be hopeful for its legacy.

Queer British Art 1861-1967 @Tate Britain runs until October 1 2017.

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PREVIEW: New book will be first dedicated to work of iconic San Francisco photographer

This summer will see the publication of a new photographic book which records LGBT+ life in San Francisco during a seminal period in the development of the LGBT+ movement.

LGBT: San Francisco is the first book dedicated to photographer Daniel Nicoletta’s archive of powerful images tracing the burgeoning lesbian-gay-bisexual-transgender (LGBT) mecca that was San Francisco in the 1970s to the present day.

Nicoletta is well-known for his iconic images of Harvey Milk, one of the world’s first openly gay elected officials who was assassinated by a homophobic colleague in 1978, but his photographs are also a unique insider’s perspective on the years that followed Milk’s death, taking us through the ebullience and the pathos of the times.

The book features a foreword by film director Gus Van Sant, who directed the Oscar nominated bio-pic, Milk, and has an introduction by Chuck Mobley.

In his foreward, Van Sant writes: “Danny’s photos are a treasured artistic record of the people who initiated a movement from within their own neighbourhood, and this work links that exuberant time to the larger history of LGBT people. This book is a very welcome addition to our enduring collective memory.”

From the outrageous and flamboyant to the political and poignant, Nicoletta’s images capture the excitement of the alternative theatre scene, the dazzling drag queens and kings, the rise of AIDS activism, and the unfailing bravery of the marriage quality movement.

Chuck Mobley writes in his introduction: “Perhaps it is helpful to remember that the majority of the people depicted in Nicoletta’s photographs – especially in the years prior to the digital deluge – did not necessarily grow up surrounded by the kind of imagery found in this book. Everything that they were experiencing – the politics, the love, the parties, their activism, their artistic endeavours, and the community they were creating – was entirely new. They were making it up as they went along; they weren’t simply mimicking what they had grown up seeing in films and photographs. All the while, Nicoletta was there alongside them, quietly building a sustained practice out of what was essentially a collective enterprise: the life and times around him.”

LGBT: San Francisco will be available from the end of June 2017.

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BRIGHTON FRINGE FESTIVAL: The Picture of Dorian Gray@The Warren, Studio 2

Argus Angel Award winning Box Tale Soup return to Brighton Fringe with a thrilling new adaptation of Oscar Wilde’s The Picture of Dorian Gray.

Commissioned by the William Andrews Clark Memorial Library, UCLA, Box Tale Soup’s new adaptation of Oscar Wilde’s The Picture of Dorian Gray is an inventive and thought-provoking take on the classic tale of debauchery and scandal.

Young and beautiful, Dorian Gray sinks deep into a lifestyle of luxury and abandon, unchanged by corruption and untouched by age. But behind a thick, locked door, beneath a dark, heavy curtain, Dorian’s portrait tells a different story… In the company’s signature style, The Picture of Dorian Gray features captivating handmade puppets, but is also their first piece to include a larger cast – their previous shows have all employed just two performers.

Box Tale Soup have performed extensively around the UK, including appearances at the Little Angel, Lyric Hammersmith, Wilton’s Music Hall and the Bridgewater Hall. They have also taken work to China, America and Europe.

Recent collaborations include work with world-renowned choral ensemble The Sixteen, and Guardian Charity Award winners Music Action International. The company’s previous visits to Brighton Fringe have been well received by critics and audiences alike.

★★★★★  “..a triumph of stagecraft.”….. The Latest (for Northanger Abbey)

★★★★★  “..an uplifting, intelligent and emotive triumph..”…..Broadway Baby (for Manalive!)

★★★★★  “..their intensity grips us.. It’s brilliant!”….. SGFringe (for Casting the Runes)

“They are wonderful.”….. The Times


Event: Oscar Wilde’s The Picture of Dorian Gray

Where: The Warren: Studio 2, St Peter’s Church North, York Place, Brighton, BN1 4GU

When: May 6 and 7

Time: 6pm

Cost: £11/£9.50

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Concerns raised about safety in city taxis at LGBT Community Safety Forum public meeting

Concerns about personal safety in city taxis were raised by entertainer Dave Lynn at the quarterly meeting of the Brighton & Hove LGBT Community Safety Forum (Safety Forum) at the Queens Hotel last month.

He told the meeting about an incident he experienced in a taxi when he felt threatened and had to demand the driver stop and let him out.

Peter Wileman the casework manager at the council’s community safety team responded saying that the council’s licensing committee takes homophobic abuse very seriously and encouraged people to report all incidents to his team. He said the council’s licensing committee had recently suspended a taxi driver’s license for 3 months while they investigated an allegation by two gay men who claimed they had been homophobically abused by him in his taxi.

The Safety Forum agreed to write to all local taxi companies to see what LGBT+ awareness training they deliver to their drivers.

Speakers on the night included Sgt Peter Allan the Hate Crime Sergeant and Trans Equality Advocate at Sussex Police and the new CEO of Brighton & Hove LGBT Switchboard, Daniel Cheesman.

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The Safety Forum presented certificates for money they raised at the B RIGHT ON Festival during LGBT History Month in February for other organisations as well as certificates for money raised for the work of Safety Forum by entertainers from the Adult Panto (£3,814.02) and the Queens Arms (£610).

Money raised by the Brighton & Hove, LGBT Community Safety Forum for other organisations during the B RIGHT ON Festival, included: Sussex Beacon £2,870,98: Rise £106.05: Safety Net £216.79: Cancer Research £1,063.27 and MindOut £417.44.

A special award was presented to Kim Hobson and her photographer husband Graham Hobson for their help during the 17 day festival.

If you are the victim of a hate crime dial 999. If you are not confident to report to the police you can report it to the Council’s Safety Team www.safeinthecity.info

Or telephone the LGBT Community Safety Forum on 01273 855620.

 

Spring issue of The Pink Humanist ready to download

The Pink Humanist is an online magazine published by the UK LGBT registered charity the Pink Triangle Trust (PTT).

The magazine’s editor is Barry Duke who also edits the UK Freethinker (the Voice of Atheism since 1881) and features topics of special interest to those who identify as atheists, freethinkers, humanists, secularists and sceptics in the LGTB+ communities and those who support them.

In the latest issue, Duke explains why he won’t apologise to a Christian reader who took exception to his referring to God as “mythical” in one of the regular columns he has been commissioned to write for a newspaper in Spain’s Costa Blanca Round Town News. Duke has dedicated the column to Gilbert Baker, the San Francisco-based artist who created the rainbow flag in 1978.

There is a report in the issue about Duke’s Lifetime Achievement Award by the UK National Secular Society.

Among other items is a cover story about the banning in Russia of Vladimir Putin images showing the President wearing lipstick and mascara, the vicious attacks on gays in the Islamic state of Chechnya, and a report from Australia that Christian organisations are refusing to ditch their quack “gay cure” therapies.

There is also a tribute to gay atheist Warren Allen Smith, the New York-based activist and writer who contributed columns over many years to the Gay & Lesbian Humanist and its successor The Pink Humanist. Smith died earlier this year aged 95.

The issue also contains a report about the need for large corporations to have more inclusive policies regarding their LGBT+ employees and a review of The Imitation Game, the latest graphic novel about the gay atheist World War 11 code-breaker Alan Turing.

To download current, as well as past issues of the magazine, click here:

To download the magazine as a pdf document, go to “Archived Issues” then “Back Issues” and place the cursor on any cover. In the top left corner of the cover you will see “click here to download pdf”.

Additionally, individual articles can be accessed directly from the site’s home page. These contain all relevant hyperlinks.

David Hill Experience raises £3,368.00 for local HIV charity

Following a two-year break from the stage, David Hill returned to Proud Cabaret with his trademark show The David Hill Experience on Wednesday, April 26 to raise money for the Sussex Beacon.

The Sundaes
The Sundaes

David, founder and Managing Director of Brighton based events business E3, hosted an evening which included stellar performances from Keris Lea, Jenna Hall, Dolly Rocket and topping the bill, Brighton’s biggest girl group, The Sundaes.

All the artists gave up their time for free so that the proceeds on the night could go towards helping The Sussex Beacon remain open.

The sell-out crowd were invited to buy raffle tickets and take part in a silent auction with all the money raised going to the Beacon.

David also used the evening as an opportunity to launch The Sussex Beacon Corporate Relay which forms part of The Brighton Half Marathon. Four local businesses pledged to enter teams on the night and this raised even more money for the charity.

David Hill
David Hill

David said: “I’m thrilled to see so many regulars here after such a long break and some new faces too. The maximum amount ever raised on one of these nights was £2,221.00 so we have well and truly broken the fundraising record this evening with a staggering £3,368.00 raised for The Sussex Beacon”.

The money was raised as part of the ongoing Save The Sussex Beacon campaign.

Simon Dowe
Simon Dowe

Sussex Beacon CEO Simon Dowe, added: “Huge thanks have to go to David and all the people involved with this great night. Not only was it very successful at raising much-needed funds for The Sussex Beacon but it was also an entertaining and fun night out”.

Another show in planned for later in the year.

You can catch the Sundaes with their new show Diva Las Vegas at the Spiegletent during the Brighton Fringe on Tuesday, May 23.

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Miss Hope Springs to headline ‘Hibernation’ community luncheon

Hibernation, the annual community luncheon organised by Bear Patrol takes place this year on October 22. 

Miss Hope Springs
Miss Hope Springs

Hibernation returns to the glamorous surroundings of the Paganini Ballroom at The Old Ship Hotel on Sunday, October 22 from noon till 6pm.

Headlining the afternoons entertainment will be the fabulous international entertainer Miss Hope Springs, performing original numbers from her award-winning show.

Tickets are available costing £40 each and money raised will go towards ensuring the Counselling Project at Brighton & Hove LGBT Switchboard which recently announced it is to close its doors, continues at another LGBT+ organisation.

The first £5,00o raised on the day will go to help the Counselling Project relocate with the rest going to support the important work of the Brighton and Hove LGBT Community Safety Forum.

There will also be a charity raffle and auction.

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