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SPORTS GROUPS: Brighton & Hove Sea Serpents

Why Do We Play Rugby?

Brighton and Hove Sea Serpents

International level rugby on the TV gives us a sport that is big. Big guys (tall and with muscles on muscles) may be fun to watch but can be pretty intimidating on the pitch. But at an amateur level – it’s very different.

♦  The sport gives you a physical activity which helps fitness, without the constant boredom of jogging or the need to be in a gym

♦ There’s a position for guys of any shape on the pitch. You don’t have to be big, or muscular, or lithe and fast (to start) they wear sizes S to XXL.

♦ They have an amazing social life. Whether it’s Sunday lunch at their sponsors, The Camelford Arms, or pints after a match, they look out for each other as a team. No one is left behind.

The Brighton & Hove Sea Serpents was set up just after the Rugby World Cup in 2015. Although there have been LGBT rugby clubs for some time (20 years in the case of London), Brighton are arriving fashionably late to the party. Their first meeting brought together 50 men and women to discuss whether there was a need for a dedicated LGBT club or to establish whether people just joined Brighton or Hove Rugby Clubs.

They now have over 30 playing members, and held their first full 15 a side match last month against the Kings Cross Steelers at Hove Rugby Club. Support from the LGBT community was very impressive with over 60 supporters turning up to cheer from the sidelines. The Sea Serpents look forward to putting some back through their support of others’ events.

Their next match is an away fixture, against the Birmingham Bulls on April 16.

Their intention is to play league rugby, but while they are learning, their fixtures will be friendlies against either local sides or other inclusive clubs in the UK.

They now officially belong to International Gay Rugby (IGR). It’s not quite like Thunderbirds (though Lady Penelope did go to Roedean) but an association of inclusive rugby clubs from all over the world. Among other ways of supporting member clubs, IGR runs through member clubs regional and worldwide tournaments.

This May the Bingham Cup (www.binghamcup.com) will be held in Nashville, USA and is a worldwide tournament. In 2017 they will be taking a team to the Union Cup which will be held in Madrid.

Organisers know that it can be difficult enough to join any group activity when you’re either new to an area or a sport. Adding sexuality into that mix has often been sufficient to make people give up. That’s why the Sea Serpents exist. They are a primarily (but not exclusively) LGBT club, anyone who wants to be a member, and supports their aims, can join. They currently only have a men’s side, but will, if there is support for it, help form a women’s side in the future.

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Brighton & Hove Serpents first competitive game against Kings Cross Steelers at Hove Rugby Club

If you’re interested in playing or supporting, or aren’t really sure but might like a chat with them before committing yourself, drop a line to Chris Rogerson (recruitment) by emailing: info@bhssrfc.com

To check out their website, click here: bhssrfc.com

Or to see their Facebook face, click here:  facebook.com/bhssrfc

 

SPORTS GROUPS: OutdoorLads

OutdoorLads is a charity aimed at supporting the mental and physical health of gay, bi and trans men.

OutdoorLads

They organise hiking, camping, climbing, hostelling, biking, canoeing, sailing and skiing events – as well as one-off international trips and more hard-core challenge events.

It doesn’t matter whether you’re a total beginner or a well-hardened outdoor enthusiast, they have something for everyone, each week, all over the UK. Whatever the event you’ll find a group of friendly, welcoming guys with a shared love of the outdoors.

WEB.300OutdoorLads are the biggest social group for gay and bi guys who like the outdoors in the UK. They put together over 1,000 events each year with the help of nearly 200 volunteer Event Leaders, and have the highest concentration of events and members here in the South East with weekend day walks and climbing/bouldering taking place every week.

They also run a huge range of hostel and camping weekends all over the place so you can get away for the weekend, get some fresh air, do some activities and make some new friends. Their next ‘Big Spring Camp 2016’ which will have over 300 attendees and lots of activities is taking place over the late May bank holiday and is booking up fast. They plan and organise it all for you, you just have to book up and turn up, all of their Event Leaders are trained and assessed to look after you on your particular event.

This year marks OutdoorLads 10th Birthday, and they have just gone from strength to strength, with 1,000’s of people using their site and with over a 1,000 events taking place every year you will be sure to find an event near you.

To search for events in and around Brighton just go to odl.to/Brighton for the latest list.

If you are not sure what you want to try first you can create a profile at www.outdoorlads.com explore the site and see what takes your fancy!

You get 6 weeks’ free trial membership when you first sign up so you can go on a day walk for free and see what it is all about and meet some like-minded people.

They also run a range of social evenings which are a bit more relaxed and usually involve a bar/pub where you can chat to members and find out what’s coming and how to get involved.

OutdoorLads

For more details, about OudoorLads, click here:

Facebook – http://facebook.com/outdoorlads

Twitter – http://twitter.com/outdoorlads

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Victims of child sexual exploitation overlooked

It's not on the radarChildren at risk of sexual exploitation are maybe being missed as some front-line workers are stereotyping victims, warns Barnardo’s in a recently published report.

The report It’s not on the radar says a better understanding of the diversity of Child Sexual Exploitation (CSE) victims in England is essential to tackling this form of child abuse, so professionals identify all children who have been sexually exploited, or are at risk.

Children, young people and parents also need to be more aware that not every CSE case is like the high profile ones in Rotherham, Rochdale and Oxford where most of the perpetrators were males and victims white girls.

Evidence in the study shows CSE affects children regardless of gender, sexuality, ethnicity, faith, disability, background or upbringing. For example, children and young people with a disability are three times more likely to be abused than children without a disability; while young people questioning their sexuality and searching for advice may be more vulnerable to being groomed online.

The report recommends that professionals receive appropriate training to help them identify children who have experienced, or are at risk of CSE and it wants relevant organisations to work better together.

It also calls for school lessons to focus on healthy relationships to help children feel more confident in being able to identify possible risky situations, while families and communities must be more aware of CSE.

Javed Khan
Javed Khan

Barnardo’s CEO, Javed Khan said: “This horrific form of child abuse can affect any child or young person. One in five children we help in our own services are male victims of this crime.

“Assumptions must not be made when trying to identify sexual exploitation as each victim has their own vulnerabilities. Recognising the diversity of victims will help ensure they are identified and get the right support.”

To download the report, click here:

Proud2Be shows solidarity with refugees and asylum seekers

Devon-based social enterprise, Proud2Be recently hosted a jumble sale to raise funds for two initiatives that support refugees and asylum seekers.

Proud2Be marching at London Pride
Proud2Be marching at London Pride

The event raised £422 pounds, which will be split evenly between Embracing Refugees and Beyond Borders Totnes & District. Items that were not sold on the day were distributed between three local charity shops and several bags of warm clothes are currently making their way to Calais.

Mat Price
Mat Price

Proud2Be co-founder Mat Price, said: “We are thrilled that we were able to raise funds for such an important cause, and one that is very close to our hearts. It is also our way of sending out the message that we are proud to stand in solidarity with refugees and asylum seekers in the South West and beyond. We would like to thank Dot Spink, the volunteers and all those who donated, for making the event such a success.” 

This follows the news that Proud2Be have successfully obtained grant funding from The Big Lottery Fund and Local Youth Network to go towards the costs of their community work in South Devon, that supports lesbian, gay, bisexual &/or trans+ (LGBT+) people, their families and friends.

Proud2Be’s monthly social group for adults is now held at the Rushbrook Centre in Totnes, on the second Thursday of each month. The group is now free to attend and provides a safe space for LGBT+ people, their friends and family members to meet.

With support from The Big Lottery Fund, Proud2Be are now hiring the community bus service Bob the Bus to provide transport to and from the social, for those who live in towns and villages nearby and would otherwise struggle to attend the group due to limited transport options and or mobility issues.

Totnes Pride Parade 2015
Totnes Pride Parade 2015

This year’s Totnes Pride will be held on Saturday, September 3. Launched in 2013, the popular community event provides the whole community an opportunity to come together to celebrate diversity in the local area and raise awareness about the issues faced by the LGBT+ community in Devon and beyond.

This year’s event will include a high street procession, community stands, an art craft area, a family area, a panel discussion, workshops and informative talks, an after party and much more.

Special guests will be announced in due course.

Proud2Be also run a youth group which provides an opportunity for LGBT+ young people (aged 13-18) to meet in a safe space to be with and make new friends. With support from Local Youth Network, the group is now able to run twice a month in Central Totnes.

Recently, Proud2Be have been acknowledged for their community work and have been nominated for the LGBT Community Organisation Award at The 2016 National Diversity Awards.

To vote for Proud2Be, click here:

To find out more about Proud2Be, click here: 

First transgender woman in Premier League Football nominated in National Diversity Awards

Hove resident, Sophie Cook, the first transgender woman to work in the Premier League, has been nominated for the LGBT Role Model Award at The 2016 National Diversity Awards.

Sophie Cook
Sophie Cook

The awards celebrate some of the excellent and inspiring achievements of positive role models and community organisations across the UK.

The awards recognise nominees in their respective fields of diversity including age, disability, gender, race, faith, religion and sexual orientation.

Sophie Cook became the first out transgender woman to work in the Premier League at the start of this season. The club photographer for AFC Bournemouth, Miss Cook finished last season as Steve and returned to the club in July 2015 after coming out as Sophie.

Steve
Steve

Ex-Royal Air Force where she was a jet engine technician on Tornados, Sophie joined the service at 16 and saved the life of a colleague following an explosion at the age of 18.

Battling Post Traumatic Stress, gender dysphoria and depression she fought self harming and suicidal feelings her entire life until transition.

Having originally started to transition in 2000 she stopped the process after her son was born with a disability.

Sophie said: “There was no way I could put my family through the pain of my transition whilst coming to terms with my son’s disability. I killed Sophie and buried her, she was gone.”

Over the next 15 years Sophie suffered from suicidal feelings every single day and put on 7 stone in weight due to self harming with food.

In January 2015 she made the realisation that the only way to save her life was indeed to embrace who she truly was.

Sophie delayed coming out until after her football club, AFC Bournemouth had gained promotion to the Premier League for fear of distracting the team’s focus and fearing that she would never work in football again.

After being welcomed by players, management and fans alike for her bravery she has found that she is in a position to help others and further the cause of diversity within a sport not known for its openness.

Following her story breaking in the national and international press in January, Sophie found herself much in demand as a speaker and has spoken at Wembley Stadium, Liverpool FC and a host of national conferences.

She is a patron of Just A Ball Game? and the LGB&T Dorset Equality Network; a Stonewall Schools Role Model; a Healthwatch Dorset Champion; Hate Crime Ambassador for Sussex Police and a member of the Pan-Dorset LGBT Health Advisory Group.

Having lost 6 stone since her transition she now runs half marathons and is taking part in the Brighton Marathon for LGBT Switchboard and has been asked to compete as a guest in two triathlons.

As a professional speaker she is helping businesses to understand the positive contribution of creating an inclusive environment for their LGBT employees and clients and helping to reduce the fear of change that so often inhibits businesses and individuals ability to reach their full potential.

She produces and promotes her own one woman show in which she tells her story and helps others to overcome fear and show themselves compassion.

Sophie continued: “I didn’t choose to be transgender but I did chose not to be a victim.

“I was scared that by being true to myself that I would lose everything, the reality is that I’ve gained so much and the things that I was most scared of losing, my children, have surprised me.

“My 11-year-old daughter summed it up to me when she posted on Facebook – ‘You’re my hero, Steve was great but Sophie’s better.'”

The National Diversity Awards 2016 will be held in Liverpool on September 16th.

To nominate Sophie Cook, click here:

Or for a printed nomination form email: emma@nationaldiversityawards.co.uk

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Brighton Bear Weekend raise over £400 for Rainbow Fund

Brighton Bear Weekend (BBW) break record for money raised at one of their Camelford Arms quiz nights.

Winners of BBW Quiz
Winners of BBW Quiz

At the Easter Quiz on Maunday Thursday they raised a total of £417.25 for the Rainbow Fund, who make grants to LGBT/HIV organisations delivering effective front line services to LGBT people in Brighton & Hove.

The quiz night, a regular Thursday event at the Camelford Arms was hosted by BBW with questions set by BBW Chair, Graham Munday. Subject matter included chocolate, the bible, bunnies, eggs and much more. The evening was hosted and expertly held together by Camelford manager Mark Flood.

The winning team of three, “Cunty McCuntFace” was led by Neil Barstow, who also won the last BBW Christmas Quiz in December. They missed out on the £300 cash prize but still walked away £25 richer and with a box of Crunchy Bars, they shared with everyone in the Camelford.

Raffle winners include:

♦ James Byrne – Easter egg from Choccywoccydoodah (star prize)

♦ Paul Bailey – Bottle of Champagne

♦ Gary Smith – Meal for two with wine at the Camelford Arms

♦ Louise Palmer – Bottle of Absolut vodka

♦ Neil Mitchell – Bottle of wine

♦ Olly Carter – Lindt Easter egg

♦ Shaun Cheeseboro – Thorntons Easter egg

♦ Besi Ledward – Creme Egg Easter egg

♦ Fraser Hall – Mini Eggs Easter egg

♦ Andrew Oldfield and James Allen  – Mini Eggs and Creme Egg Easter eggs

BBW organisers would like to thank Mark Flood and the team at The Camelford Arms especially the bar staff and kitchen staff for keeping everyone fed and watered. Choccywoccydoodah for donating the cake to be the Star Prize for the raffle. The Camelford sponsored Sea Serpents Rugby Club for creating such a great atmosphere but most of all special thanks to everyone who went along and bought raffle tickets, played the quiz and donated money in the buckets to the Rainbow Fund.

Graham Munday the Chair of BBW, said: “We knew it was going to be a big night when we heard that all the tables had been booked out the night before. People were filling out quiz sheets on the back of other people. We are bowled over by the response and so pleased so many could make it on a busy weekend. We look forward to seeing everybody back again on June 16 for our next quiz and the opening event of Brighton Bear Weekend.”

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Manchester Pride announce parade theme

Mancunians are invited to share their stories in this year’s Manchester Pride Parade.

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Applications are open for Manchester’s biggest lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) street celebration as the charity announce they hope to turn the streets of Manchester into a fairytale with the theme – Once Upon A Time.

The parade which takes place over the August bank holiday weekend as part of The Big Weekend celebration sees as many as 115 organisations and over 3,000 people come together to march, and is watched by tens of thousands of people as it snakes through the streets of Manchester city centre passing by the Town Hall and the Gay Village before finishing on Whitworth Street.

In recent years it has been led by some of the most prominent faces in the LGBT world, including Orange Is The New Black actress Lea DeLaria and national treasure Sir Ian McKellen. Plus last year BBC Radio Manchester broadcasted live from the parade with transgender radio presenter Stephanie Hirst.

Participants have ranged from charitable organisations such as The George House Trust and Barnardo’s to community sports groups, Manchester Village FC and The Spartans RFC; commercial organisations such as Nando’s, United Utilities and Tesco; local community groups including The Village Bakers, Manchester Frontrunners and businesses from Manchester’s Gay Village such as The New Union and Kiki.

A firm favourite, taking part for the last six years is the cast and crew of Coronation Street, who always play a huge part in the Manchester Pride The Big Weekend celebrations. 2014 saw new recruit Les Dennis take to the show’s float in a pink tabard, curly wig and pearls as legendary show character Mavis Wilton.

Mark Fletcher, Chief Executive for Manchester Pride, said: “As we reflect on years gone by in our wonderful City, we recognise many stories, moments, events and occasions that have occurred in order to allow us to reach the level of freedom that our LGBT communities enjoy today. Once upon a time allows us to look back, reflect and plan the next steps for the advancement of LGBT equality.”

Each year floats are entered into The Manchester Pride Parade Awards which are judged on Parade Day by representatives from The Manchester Pride Board of Trustees, The Lord Mayor and Sponsors.

Last year’s winners were:

♦ Best Overall Float – Unison

♦ Best Community/Charity Float – LGBT Youth North West

♦ Best Walking Entry – Littleborough Oakenhoof Folk Arts Group

♦ Best Public sector/Services Entry – Greater Manchester Fire & Rescue

♦ Best Individual Costume – The Albert Kennedy Trust

♦ Best Village Licensed Business – On Bar

Organisations wishing to take part in this years parade, click here:

Brighton Bear Weekend to co-host men’s zone at Brighton Pride

“We think with the theme of unifying nations what is more appropriate than the biggest event aimed at gay men in the south teaming up with the club that is the best men’s night to happen to London this decade”.

“The theme is Western so expect the area to be packed with the horniest hunks, beefiest bears, leather men in chaps and cowboys ready to lasso you in for fun. The tent will be filled dancing to the best local and international superstar DJs. When you have enough of the dancing the area has its own bar with plenty of straws bales to relax on and chat to old friends and make new ones”.

“Pride is such a special time,” Graham added: “It is a time to celebrate our friendships, the battles we have won and the ones to come as we remember that while it is not always perfect here, we enjoy an equality LGBTQ people across the world are denied. We wish everybody coming to Brighton Pride a fantastic, safe time at what is the best Pride in the country. See you in the BBW & Brut Men’s Zone”.

For more information about Brighton Bear Weekend which takes place from June 17-19, click here:


Event: Brighton Pride

Where: Preston Park, Preston Road, Brighton

When: Saturday, August 6

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Urban World back at Brighton Pride 2016

The team behind the UK’s biggest and most diverse, multi-ethnic club night Urban World will return to host the Urban Dance Tent at the Pride Festival in Preston Park on Saturday, August 6.

WEB.600Urban World burst onto the LGBT club scene in 2012. It now regularly attracts 1000+ clubbers from black and ethnic minority communities for bimonthly events at the Scala, in London.

Urban World Co-Promoter, Patrick Lilley said: “Our entire team were thrilled to be involved last year and excited to be invited back this year.”

DJ Big John said: “It was off the hook last year! Can’t wait to come back and make a weekend out of it. It’s great to bring a range of sounds to the club tent from Hip-Hop and Afro-beat to Salsa and Desi Beats. We have a great roster of DJs booked”

Among the team returning this year are DJ’s Big John Freeman (WORK), DJ Qu (Urban Des), Smoochie (Lush) as well as resident MC Mad-x. And with more big name DJs and acts due to be added to the Urban Dance Tent line-up the Hip-Hop, Afro-beat, Salsa and Desi grooves are guaranteed to be glorious this Brighton Pride.


Event: Brighton Pride Festival

Where: Preston Park, Preston Road, Brighton

Time: Noon – 10pm

When: Saturday, August 6

To buy tickets online, click here:

 

 

Brighton Pride announce main stage hosts

X Factor star Seann Miley Moore and DJ, model and transgender community advocate Munroe Bergdorf will be bringing a touch of class, style and glamour as hosts of this years main stage at Brighton Pride.

 

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Expect smiles and sunshine as these two darlings of the LGBT+ scene deliver a day to remember as we all celebrate the Pride theme Carnival Of Diversity: Uniting Nations.

Yes the heels will be high, the costumes couture, the lippy luscious and the fun, absolutely fabulous as these most gorgeous of stars join us to host Brighton Pride 2016.

Of his date with Brighton Pride, Seann said: “I am over the moon to be hosting and performing at this year’s Brighton Pride event! I’m super excited! All I can say is get your heels and lippy on we are gonna have a fab time!”

Munroe added: “Pride is a chance to pay thanks and celebrate those who fought for the rights that we now enjoy. It’s a time to celebrate each other and a reminder that we’re all in this together. Pride is important to me because it reminds me of how fortunate we are live in these more accepting times. There’s still a way to go, but without events like Pride we wouldn’t be where we are now”.


Event: Brighton Pride Festival

Where: Preston Park

Time: Noon – 10pm

When: Saturday, August 6

To buy tickets online, click here:

 

 

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