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Mr Virtual Brighton Bear 2020 Competition announced

Do you have what it takes to be Mr Brighton Bear 2020? Perhaps you fancy winning £100 (1st prize) or £50 (2nd prize)? Or maybe you want to some fun during lockdown…

Whatever your motivation, the boys from Brighton Bear Weekend (BBW) would love to see you in the line up of contestants for the 2020 Mr Brighton Bear Competition, in support of the Brighton Rainbow Fund which gives grants to local LGBTQ+/HIV groups who deliver effective frontline services to people in the city. For the first (and hopefully only) time, this year’s competition will be mostly ‘virtual’ in nature; hence, for the most part, you won’t even need to leave your own home!

This is how it will work:

First, you’ll need to register by completing the form that can found here. It’s free to enter, so don’t delay, get it done now!

Once registered, you will be sent more details but, to give you the general idea, you will be asked to send three pictures of yourself in (1) Beachwear, (2) Night out on the town and (3) Wear what you dare! You will also be asked to send a video (between one and two mins long) of you performing whatever talent you wish to share – singing, dancing, playing a sport, being artistic, whatever!

There’ll be a public vote to whittle contestants down contestants to a shortlist of five people. This year BBW are offering the winner £100 cash prize and a portrait by Fraser Dickson of LittleBigMen Drawings. There will also be one runner up prize of £50 cash. Everyone on the shortlist will get a 2020 Mr Brighton Bear T-shirt.

Deadline for entries is the 30th April.

Taylor Leigh, winner of Mr Brighton Bear 2019, said: “Enter Mr Brighton Bear for a furtastic time. It’s a great group of accepting guys and a fun atmosphere. I was nervous and never expected to win. It was a total shock, but I was so please I did. So do enter, you have nothing to lose.” 

Graham Munday, BBW Chair, added, “Last year we bent to public demand and had our very first Mr Brighton Bear competition. Taylor was a very deserved winner and has supported us throughout the year. This year it is going to be different, but we still believe in having fun, even more so now. As always Brighton Bear Weekend and Mister Brighton Bear are very proud in supporting the Brighton Rainbow Fund.”  

Whitehawk Ultras – LGBTQ+ allies

Stephen Wrench on being an unlikely fan of an unlikely team.

“This isn’t football,” shouted one fan at my umpteenth match at Whitehawk FC, “it’s conceptual art.” He wasn’t wrong. If you imagine football to be super- macho, super-homophobic and frankly a bit nasty, think again. Whitehawk FC, Brighton’s alternative football team that’s currently flying high in all the glamour of the Isthmian League South East Division, is none of these. Here’s what Whitehawk is: anti-homophobic, anti-sexist and anti-racist. A little eccentric. A lot of fun. There’s none of the multi-million-pound trappings of the Premier League here, no Ferraris parked in a gated enclosure, no pampered stars with their own entourage. Players here have part-time jobs. The current goalkeeper, James Broadbent, is a teacher in real life.

There are also the Ultras, the hard-core fans with the softest of hearts and the sharpest of wits. “Mister Broadbent,” they sing, “in a class of his own.” To stand among them is to be part of that conceptual art performance. Swearing isn’t permitted. Rainbow hats, scarves and banners are everywhere. Wit and laughter and improvisation are very much encouraged. Drums? Of course. Kazoos? Naturally. Bugle and air raid siren? Of course. A lobster? If you’re very lucky. Fans sing throughout the match. Ah, the match. This is non-league football, where fans move behind the opponent’s goal for each half, the better to cheer as a goal goes in and jeer good-naturedly at the visiting goalkeeper. Unsure of the rules? Don’t know the words to the songs? Trust me, you’ll learn.

I’ve never been a full-blooded football fan before. Being gay and watching football didn’t seem compatible. Then I went to my first match at Whitehawk’s home ground, tucked away just beyond East Brighton Park, nestling under the Downs. By the time the Ultras broke into their ritualistic “Homophobia we say no, sexism we say no, racism we say no”, just after a version of Depeche Mode’s Just Can’t Get Enough, I was hooked. That was four seasons ago. I’ve been to just about every home match since, and increasingly to away matches too. These have the added bonus of a kit designed by artist David Shrigley, featuring the rainbow flag.

It’s been an invigorating tonic in difficult times. I’m long-term HIV positive and a new complication a few years ago sent my mental health into freefall. I became increasingly isolated. And yet I never missed a Whitehawk match. Somehow in that liberated zone, my anxious brain feels able to take a break.

The rush of a goal going in beats any anti-depressant. The match doesn’t need to go well for it to be a vintage afternoon. Whitehawk have been relegated twice in two seasons. “It’s just like watching Whitehawk,” sing the Ultras when things are – sometimes inevitably – going badly. But the most important song has the simplest chorus.

“We say football’s for all/football’s for all/We’re Whitehawk FC/where football’s for all.”

It really is. Come and join us. You might just become hooked too.

 

 

Whitehawk FC play at The TerraPura Ground, Brighton BN2 5TS. Entrance is £10/£5 concessions. There’s free transport to the remaining matches this season. Register at https://whitehawkfc.ktckts.com/brand/travel

For Whitehawk FC, visit: www.whitehawkfc.com

For Whitehawk Ultras, visit: www.whitehawkultras.co.uk

Facebook: @whitehawkultras; Twitter: @hawksultras

Brighton Bear Weekend Tea Dance today from 2pm

The boys from Brighton Bear Weekend (BBW) will be hosting a Tea Dance online today, Sunday, April 12th, from 2pm

We all love a good old Sunday Tea Dance from Sundae Sunday to PTown and the friendly fury groovers from BBW want to bring some fun back into your life so this Easter Sunday they are throwing  a virtual one with Brighton Bear Weekend DJ’s Josh Sharp, Rob C London and DJ Bozzy Bear

Along with some rather special performance from Jon Bee and Brighton Talent Jack Lynn

BBW will post the Zoom link on the facebook page just before they start  and you can join it. It will also be streamed on Facebook live on the BrightonBear Weekend page.

So get out your disco lights, grab a few props, mix some cocktails and join us. Everybody is welcome to the fun.

Proudly supporting The Rainbow Fund – Brighton & Hove

 

 

Puberty blockers explained

Mainstream media has recently been reporting on puberty blocker use in trans teenagers.

Here Dr Sam Hall, GP and trustee for The Clare Project, gets behind the headlines with a studied look at the issue

(names have been changed to protect individual identities)

Gender critical protagonists are on the warpath about puberty blocking drugs in trans teenagers. Their use has been likened to Nazi experimentation, main stream news outlets are giving column inches to their misplaced and often uninformed fury, parents seeking this treatment for their child (and the children themselves) are often subject to harassment, and clinicians who prescribe it fear for their livelihoods and reputations. Using hormone blockers to help young people with gender dysphoria is a widely accepted yet controversial practice. How have we ended up here? In a place where a medical treatment which we know works, is relatively safe, and can save lives is also the subject of such fierce debate in non-medical circles that across the pond in some US states, legislation is being considered to prevent its use outright. And in the UK, the single clinic providing this treatment is under intense scrutiny from the media and its own commissioner, NHS England.In the USA, land of extremes, paediatricians dealing with trans teenagers are readily prescribing hormone blockers to young people with gender dysphoria, and consider the treatment as gender-affirming. The position is that this treatment, if desired by the patient, is likely to reduce minority stress – a term that describes chronically high levels of stress faced by members of stigmatized groups  – and all the consequent mental ill health that accompanies it. A recent article published in Pediatrics, the journal of the AAP (American Academy of Pediatrics) in Feb 2020 confirms this view. It describes a cross-sectional survey of a cohort of over 20,000 trans individuals aged 18-36, looking at the impact of hormone blockers.

Interestingly, over 80% of respondents when asked said they did not or would not have wanted puberty suppression. So let’s start with unpacking that statistic – most trans people if asked, will say that had they been offered puberty suppression, they would not have chosen it. This is what we call retrospective data, it does not replace real time info about trans teens right now, but it does give us some idea of numbers, and why today’s scaremongering is both misplaced and dangerous. Dangerous because of the 17% who said they would have wanted hormone blockers, only 2.5% actually got it. And that 2.5% were much less likely to think about killing themselves. Moreover, this statistically significant mental health benefit followed them into adulthood. In other words. these kids do better.

We know that trans people suffer significantly higher rates of suicidal ideation (thinking about suicide), higher rates of attempted suicide, and higher rates of completed suicide, than a comparable cisgender population. We know that much of this mental ill health stems from the stigma and suffering that accompanies a trans identity, and we know that for many, having gender-affirming treatment such as taking cross-sex hormones, and for some, surgery, can relieve these symptoms. This survey also tells us that if puberty suppression is offered to those who desire it, their mental health outcomes in the longer term are significantly better. This feels like a no-brainer to me. So why are we even having this discussion in our national media, on TV and radio, in on line forums and chat rooms, right wing religious circles, and political parties? This study is yet more evidence that the current treatment pathways for trans children and young people as well as adults, are the right ones.

For a young child, in a supportive environment, the solution to gender dysphoria is far less complicated than we imagine. Just allow them to be who they are. This approach is widely endorsed as being the most successful in terms of the child’s wellbeing, and for most parents that is the only real concern. Surprising though, how difficult this can actually be for families, schools, parents and siblings to achieve, even if they are on board with their young person’s need to be seen as a different gender to the one they were assigned at birth. Sometimes the judgements that come thick and fast are internal, sometimes external, but it’s never the child who has a problem. Transition is not complex for them. The younger the child, the less the shame; a change in attire, perhaps a different name, the agreement that the child will switch pronouns and gender. These simple changes are happening all over the country without our knowledge or input. They really are not difficult, and should be readily embraced, especially since the results are so empowering, unless of course people are nasty. Helen, mother of Leah, age 13, doesn’t really understand why, but thinks this may be because people feel deeply challenged about themselves and their own identity when faced with a trans person. The need to deadname, persecute through language and otherwise denigrate trans people seems to be inversely proportional to an individual’s own solidity of sense of self.

Leah is by far and away the more ‘girly’ of Helen’s two daughters; twirling and dancing in princess dresses from nursery age, Helen says Leah herself has never shown any sign of identifying as male. At 3 years old she questioned why she had been given a penis at birth “didn’t the nurse know I was a girl?”. Leah is one of the lucky ones. There is concrete evidence that a supportive family and school surroundings result in a well-adjusted child with fewer mental health issues. A year and a half later her mum took her shopping for girls’ clothes for the first time. The start of primary school signaled a cognitive dissonance, Leah went into her reception year in a boys uniform, but was presenting exclusively as a girl at home. Although her parents grieved (especially her father) the loss of their ‘son’, it was their daughter’s wellbeing that drove them to take the brave step of allowing her to transition in year 2 at primary school. In fact, says Helen, it probably would have happened sooner if Leah had had her way. “She was always very clear that she was a girl”. She had a fantastically supportive teacher and the school did a lot of preparation, including training all their staff.

Leah has been going to the Tavistock & Portman GIDS (gender identity development service) in London since she was about 7 years old. Helen says that their thrice yearly visits have felt like an extended assessment of them as a family and of Leah as a person, with a thinly veiled expectation that she will somehow ‘revert’ to identifying as male. But she never did in the first place. To Leah, being a girl is her normality, although she is perhaps increasingly aware of the difference between herself and her close female friends, all of whom have journeyed alongside her through primary and into secondary school, and who are fiercely protective of her when it comes to transphobic remarks which are still all too common in the ‘playground’. For the last few years, as puberty approached, Leah has shown signs of anxiety and fear related to the potential changes her body might undergo if nothing were to be done to prevent it. She has been fixated on hormone blockers since she became aware that they were an option, and is now six months in to what she sees as absolutely essential treatment in terms of her future wellbeing. She had articulated this to both her parents and the clinicians she sees at the clinic on many occasions, but their reluctance to prescribe was palpable to Helen. “We felt as though Leah had to prove herself as transgender time and again”.  Rather than being accepted as the girl she is and having her future as a woman facilitated and supported, the attitude from clinicians appears to almost be one of defeat as they finally acquiesced and prescribed the puberty suppressing drugs. This level of negativity from the only provider of children’s services in the UK has to change. If children later change their minds and decide to revert to the gender they were assigned at birth, we need to view this as a rich and varied journey of self-discovery in the context of a society addicted to a gender binary, rather than seeing a pattern of medical error, misdiagnosis or even that horribly judgmental descriptor “detransitioner”.

In fact, the blockers are a bit of an anticlimax to Leah. She needed to, and does, feel ‘safe’ from the ravages of a male puberty, most especially the fear of her voice breaking, something she sees as a potentially horrifying consequence of testosterone coursing through her body. Thankfully there has been no sign of this, and now that her puberty is being suppressed she can relax. But no. Helen says Leah is on to the next goal. Breasts. As all her peers start to develop, this slight and elfin-like teenager is ready to become a woman, and there is no doubt in Helen’s mind that taking oestrogen will need to happen sooner rather than later.This is where Leah and other children like her come unstuck. The T & P clinic is way behind other providers in the world, especially in Europe and the US, where cross-sex hormones are given alongside blockers, to allow these children to develop contemporaneously with their peers. The London clinic will not consider oestrogen until Leah is 16, by which time she will be a long way behind. The idea behind this delay is to make sure the child has enough time to consider the decision and reach an age which is considered more conducive to adult consent. And yet the clinic also say that they do not view puberty suppression as a neutral option, one that presses the ‘pause button’, giving kids and their families a break from the distress. They see it as a positive step leading to certainty about transition. As if the blockers themselves make it more likely that the child will continue to be trans rather than give up and give in, as appears to be their hope. Helen recalls being told that “there is an argument that puberty should be allowed to progress in order to measure the impact of hormones on your child as many young people change their minds after puberty”. She felt they were suggesting that a good burst of testosterone would ‘sort Leah out’, and that their hope was in allowing her natal puberty to manifest, and somehow ‘cure’ her. It doesn’t really make sense, in medical terms, or in the light of this attitude, to make these teens wait for their hormones.  If the puberty blockers have sealed Leah’s fate, why not get on with the next step? Further studies are needed, and some are underway, but individual children like Leah should not be human guinea pigs in the meantime.

 

There has been a meteoric rise in trans visibility over the past 10 years, with increasingly vocal advocacy and allyship for a previously hidden and ridiculed population of people. A rise in visibility which has provoked a backlash of overt transphobia, but also sometimes subtle and invisible; the denial of existence and rights is in a large part what contributes to the high levels of mental ill health. Of course, there is also dysphoria, a deep sense of discomfort, even hatred of one’s body, which in extreme cases may lead to attempts to self-mutilate. Children as young a four have been reported as suicidal.

 

There is no doubt that enforced gender norms based on genital biology have a large part to play in the distress these children feel. Gender itself is a largely societal construct, a fact that is agreed by people who are otherwise at loggerheads. Trans people are to some extent, victims of rigidly applied gender norms and social mores, which cannot be broken down fast enough in my opinion. But this will take decades, or possibly even centuries, and in the meantime punishing the victims by denying the best evidence treatment amounts to persecution of the cruellest kind. We are already sacrificial lambs at the altar of gender – don’t torture us as well…

Dr Sam Hall, GP and trustee for The Clare Project

If you would like to learn more or would like support or advice, Mermaids or Allsorts may be of help.

Mermaids is a British charity and advocacy organisation that supports gender variant and transgender youth.

Allsorts Youth Project listens to, supports & connects children & young people under 26 who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans or unsure (LGBTU) of their sexual orientation and/or gender identity.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Legends Bar & Hotel closed and in liquidation

Gscene has reached out to the team at Legends for comment and to address community concerns regarding its future. We were  referred to a statement on its website, which we reproduce below.  They are closing with immediate effect and the business is now in voluntary liquidation.

 

 

CORONAVIRUS: OLDER LGBT PEOPLE NEED OUR HELP

 

In the wake of the pandemic, LGBT+ groups are applying for a government grant to help pay for food, emotional support, and in some cases funerals for poor and elderly members of their community.

Studies show that older LGBT people are more likely to live alone and in poorer health than heterosexuals of their generation. Volunteers are rallying to the call. “We need to get cash together to bury our neighbours; that’s the reality of the situation,” said Carla Ecola, who runs The Outside Project, an LGBT+ homeless shelter in London.” 

With that in mind, a £20,000 government grant has been applied for. “They’re probably more likely to have experienced hate crime from their neighbours,” Ecola explained. “Now they’re feeling vulnerable they don’t want to link up with the mutual aid group next door.”

Many older LGBT people remember only to well the terrible spectre of the AIDS epidemic in the 1980s, a disproportionate amount of these will have lost friends and life-partners to the ravages of that disease. Now, they are being forced to relive those memories, along with the added misery of isolation.

“The need is tremendous,” said David Vincent, the head of programs at Nottingham charity SAGE, “Discrimination has also affected their employment. As a result, they may not have the savings or pension… many folks have. Their ability to prepare is not the same. So they are often… left in a complete crisis.”

SAGE currently contacting around 2,000 older people identified as vulnerable and delivering around 250 meals daily. They are also offered access to online counselling sessions and classes.

The LGBT+ Switchboard has also reached out to older people who my be suffering with mental health challenges. Co-chair Trish Walker stated “I know now we’re all self-isolated and in lockdown, but one thing I definitely feel is that there is a bonding, community drive. People reaching out and volunteering or helping those who are isolated and can’t look after themselves, maybe that’ll be a positive outcome of such a difficult time.”

Healthwatch Brighton & Hove concerns about guidance to GPs and Care Homes

 

Healthwatch Brighton & Hove has asked the local NHS CCG for a copy of the guidance issued to GPs on Covid-19 concerning care home residents. It has also asked for some comment and explanation about the context in which the advice has been provided.

Healthwatch says it is not making any judgements about the advice, although feels it is “at the very least … insensitive”.

Healthwatch Brighton & Hove chair Fran McCabe said: “These are difficult times and the NHS is making tough decisions every day with the sole intention of protecting everyone. However, what seem to be particularly challenging guidelines have been issued in a situation where the Care Quality Commission, the official regulator for health and care, is not undertaking routine inspections.

“The Health & Wellbeing Board in the city is not meeting as normal, nor is the Health Overview & Scrutiny Committee at Brighton and Hove Council; and organisations like local Healthwatch have focused our energies on Covid-19 response.

“Many Care Homes have restricted visiting and it would be a concern if some people are asked to consider completing ‘Do not resuscitate’ requests without normal access to the support of their family and friends.

“Established good practice is all about individual care planning where everyone’s unique circumstances and preferences are considered as paramount.

“This is not a time for rushing to criticise NHS decision makers, but it is important that local people are made aware and are involved in decisions that deeply impact some of the most vulnerable people in our community.”

International Family Equality Day scheduled for 3 May

This year’s International Family Equality Day will be celebrated on 3 May with a focus on integrating the idea of family diversity in the education system.

Since its inception in 2012, IFED celebrations have seen rainbow families and their friends get together in various ways, whether in large gatherings in public parks or cosy meet-ups in private backyards.

Obviously things will be different this year – meetings will be held virtually, with IFED co-president Derricia Castillo-Salazar, from Belize, saying: “Thankfully, there now are many possibilities to meet virtually while being safe at home. More than ever, we’ll take advantage of the opportunities provided by social media – not only with regard to spending time together, but also with regard to spreading our message.”

She is encouraging the IFED community to get engaged online, filling social media with pictures showing the beauty of family diversity and recommendations for children’s books depicting rainbow families. “Let us be seen. Let us be visible and empower each other.”

The organisation stressed that, while visibility and representation of family diversity are important in general, they are especially key within the educational system.

“School experiences shape a child’s identity,” said IFED board member Matcha Phorn-in, from Thailand. “It is crucial for young LGBTIQ+ people, as well as children being raised in rainbow families, to have reference models, to see themselves and their families reflected and validated in the school narrative, in textbooks, educational materials and the language being used by teachers and other professionals in the field.”

For these reasons, the IFED community aims to raise awareness of the need to make schools safe and inclusive learning environments where everyone can thrive.

“We call on pedagogical experts and school policymakers to respect and protect each child’s right to non-discrimination and to go beyond the traditional notion of family,” added IFED board member Lana Woolf, from Australia. “Otherwise, the door is open for misunderstanding, discrimination, exclusion and even violence. ”

Creativity is being encouraged as a way to reach these goals, with one suggestion being to create family trees that “reinvent and extend the concept of family”.

Newly elected IFED-board member Benny Odongo, from Kenya, said: “As LGBTIQ+ people, we can paint and draw our very own family trees, brightly coloured and emblazoned with inclusive language representing each and every one.

“We encourage rainbow families around the world to send us their family trees so that we can share and be proud of them.”

When it comes to other ways of getting involved in this year’s IFED celebrations, the organisation suggests: “Make sure to join your friends online, to exchange stories and encourage one another, to upload pictures of your families and to get the official IFED hashtags out into the world. We look forward to seeing you next month.”

Since its beginnings in 2012, IFED has grown into a worldwide movement. Last year’s edition was commemorated in 50 countries and 117 cities.

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BLAGSS Bowling Extravaganza – Outdoor Lads retain the crown!

More than 200 bowlers representing 26 LGBTQ+ organisations gathered in the Bowlplex at the Marina for the 15th annual Bowling Extravaganza organised by the Brighton LGBTQ+ Sports Society (BLAGSS). To see the venue exclusively used by local LGBTQ+ organisations competing for the trophy was a fantastic sight, said organisers – an ideal time to meet up with old friends and make some new ones.

The event allowed regular bowlers and those who play once a year to come together for a night of fun and team spirit. This year’s winners were Outdoor Lads, followed by Bear-Patrol, and Gay Men’s Chorus in third place. BLAGSS Golf, BLAGSS Bowling, BLAGSS Running and Peer Action occupied 4th, 5th and 6th places.

At this year’s event BLAGSS raised £750 for Lunch Positive as a result of generous contributions from a raffle on the night, with prizes presented from participating teams.

John Moore, BLAGSS chair, said: “This is a fantastic event that brings the local community together. It was not just about taking part as competition was fierce, with Outdoor Lads playing well to defend the title they won last year. We are delighted to support Lunch Positive, which provides valuable services for local people.”

Gary Pargeter, Lunch Positive service manager, said: “Thank you so much to everyone at BLAGSS for staging this wonderful event and for the brilliant funds raised for Lunch Positive. Lunch Positive is a small charity that reaches widely and involves many people with HIV. We help in many ways. This fundraising will directly support our emergency food bank and community food provision for people with HIV.

“This will especially help the development of additional food provision for people with HIV who are insecurely housed, street-homeless, and people experiencing both financial and housing difficulties. These funds raised will have a direct impact on the level of support we provide and the people we reach. We are deeply grateful.”

Next year’s BLAGSS Bowling Extravaganza will take place on Wednesday, February 24, 2021.

BLAGSS bowls every two weeks at the Marina. Come along and join – your first session is free. For more information, visit www.blagss.org

Gscene has learnt of the sad death of LGBT community activist David Harvey

It is with great sadness that Gscene learned today of the passing of Brighton & Hove’s LGBT scene pioneer & community activist David Harvey. The Gscene team pass our deepest condolences to his surviving partner Clive and family and those who are affected by this sad loss.
Jamie Hakim has kindly shared his post on Davids passing earlier today.  Jamie wrote;
‘My dear friend David Harvey passed away this morning after a long and brave battle with SARS-Covid19. His partner Clive asked me to write a tribute to the time we worked together. Here is it:
Within an hour of David passing away this morning, Clive was on the phone barking orders to those of us who had the privilege of working closely with David. It was something we were all very used to – but not coming from Clive. I’ve no doubt David is looking down beaming with pride and doing his famous belly laugh watching this all play out.
I met David in the spring of 2004 when I volunteered to help out at Brighton Pride HQ. At our first meeting we got on like old friends (he said a few weeks later “Janice I knew you were ‘PLU’ the second I met you”) and old friends we’ve remained ever since.
David had taken over as Brighton Pride’s Chair in 2003 at a point when the event was all but bankrupt and had completely lost its way. Together with a small group of trustees (who he hand picked) they set about stripping the event down to its bare bones. The first August festival under his leadership was pulled together by a group of hard working volunteers. It was a huge success and the following year they secured charitable status ensuring the event would be protected in the future. David stepped down from Brighton Pride after nearly 4 years where he had worked pretty much full time as an un-paid volunteer.
Our time working together at Pride and later running 3SIXTY with David Tuck was never easy but we always had an awful lot of fun in the process. David always had the knack of bringing the brightest and best people together and he loved watching them in action together. Most of these people are still his close friends – and that of course says so much about the kind of man David was. Yes he could be a right royal pain in the backside when he wanted to be – but we all loved him just the same (if not a bit more because he was generally right!).
This afternoon I’ve spoken to a couple of mutual friends who all worked with David at Brighton Pride and I asked them for a few words describing their memories from that time.
PJ Aldred said “he was a strong captain who was able to lead and steer whilst never taking any shit”.
Another friend Rob Burlace said: “Even though it didn’t always feel like it at the time, being with him whilst working on Pride was amazing and the trials we went through both tested – and proved – what a determined, loyal and morally strong character he had. A wonderful, if sometimes cantankerous, one in a million.”
Another old friend of David’s is Huw Edwards who was ‘talked’ into helping out with Brighton Pride in those early days. He said earlier: “I remember standing next to David on the balcony of the control point in Preston Park at the first Brighton Pride under David’s leadership. We were both totally overwhelmed at the sight of the huge, happy crowd. All of this happened thanks to David’s inspiration, persuasion, cajoling and sheer determination to provide a free Pride for the whole community” Last but not least I just heard from David Tuck who was David’s deputy Chair at Pride and later our partner in 3SIXTY magazine. Always a man of few words he texted me the following: “I’m so sorry. David was always very good to me.”
David stepped down from Pride in 2006 and the event continued to grow under a new group of people. However by 2010 Brighton Pride was floundering again thanks to weak management making poor decisions and the charity was soon dissolved. In 2011 David was living in Spain and wanted to keep out of it but a few of us managed to convince him to write an open letter to the current organisers telling them exactly what they were doing wrong and what they should be doing. His letter was widely published and within a year, pretty every one of his suggestions were taken on by a different group of organisers under a new style of commercial organisation (which was exactly what David had suggested was needed to save the event at that time).
David’s achievements in turning round Brighton Pride were extraordinary. I often said they should name a Brighton bus after him (all buses in the city are named after a famous resident) and he used to reply “I’m not dead yet Janice and when I am, my name had better not be just on the back of it!”.
Graeme and I send Clive, Carrie and Anne our deepest condolences. I’ve no doubt that there will be plenty more tributes and memories shared about David and I’m sure they will take comfort from reading them in the coming days and weeks.
David Harvey was one of a kind. I’m proud to have been able to call him my friend and I’m going to miss him more than I can say.
‘Au revoir’ Daisy May. I love you.’
You can read Jamies full post on Facebook here .
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