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BOOK REVIEW: Cheap Eastern European Boys

This book is a total messed up creation – much like its gay anti-hero, named after its author Tom Lesniara.

I’M guessing it’s at least partially autobiographical which makes it all the more alarming as it’s a roller coaster of drug-crazed sordid and tawdry episodes.

Indeed it reads like some thing written under some kind of chemical influence. I couldn’t decide if the author/lead character’s English was poor or whether it’s just a lousy translation but the tenses and phraseology are all over the place, mixed tenses, hanging adjectives and adverbs. You get the idea?

Tom comes from a sleepy part of Krakow in Poland and ends up via Bristol in sunny Bethnal Green.

And chapter by chapter we go round parts of London or back in time to Poland and share his completely suicidal life history which comprises drug raves in the forest, clubbing in Vauxhall and regular visits to McDonalds at 11.30pm on a Friday.

Characters come and go and all of them basically as big a shit as Tom turns out to be. The one regular character is Pete, son of a wealthy ambassador who leads Tom astray and up several metaphorical garden paths. We kind of like Pete but he too is pretty much part of a lost generation.

When Tom thinks he’s met the love of his life Magnus, things go from bad to worse, ending with Magnus blocking him on social media – including Grindr – Oh dear reader, the shame of it all!

Though only 69 pages long, so much more could have been made of the story and characters and the title – though eye-catching, is irrelevant to the story which haphazardly unfolds, then folds back on itself.

When really serious violence rears its ugly head, we actually feel sorry for Tom but annoyingly, the book just ends matter of factly. It’s as if the author lost interest in his hero and his fate. Or is there to be a sequel ? I really hope not.

The book is available on Kindle and on Amazon priced £6.15p

Reviewed by Brian Butler

LGBT+ Youth group expand their service to Worthing and West Sussex

Allsorts Youth Project to start a new LGBTU Youth Support service in Worthing, West Sussex, funded by the West Sussex Clinical Commissioning Groups (NHS), in partnership with West Sussex County Council.

HAVING successfully launched LGBT – specific support in Horsham and Chichester in 2017, this new project will now also deliver services in Worthing from Monday, February, 25 2019.

Talk It Out will provide (one-to-one) support work and the facilitation of regular young people’s groups for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Unsure young people between the ages of 11 -19 years old.

Primarily, the space will be a safe environment for LGBT and Unsure (of their sexual orientation / gender identity) young people to come together and get involved in fun and creative activities supported by a team of LGBT identified Youth Support Workers and trained volunteers.

JP Schofield, Allsorts’ West Sussex Team Leader said: “Having successfully set up and delivered groups and one-to-one support in Chichester and Horsham, we’re delighted to announce the expansion of our LGBTU Youth Support Service into Worthing.

Having been established in the Brighton & Hove area for nearly 20 years, we know there’s a real need for specific support for LGBTU young people in West Sussex which reaches remote areas of the county, enabling young people to access specialist LGBT support previously unavailable to them.

Evidence suggests that this kind of support reduces isolation, a major issue faced by LGBTU young people, and improves mental health and wellbeing so we’re excited to be expanding further into the West Sussex area, something we have wanted to do for many years – we can’t wait to get the Worthing service up and running!”

What young people say about Allsorts West Sussex: “For me, Allsorts has been nothing but positive. It gave me a safe place where my identity wasn’t questioned or belittled and surrounded me with caring and friendly people; who I will now be friends with for a very long time. It’s not an exaggeration to say that I wouldn’t be alive without Allsorts”

Evidence suggests that young people identifying as LGBT can experience significant mental health and wellbeing issues in their lives. Following consulting with the communities of LGBT young people and stakeholders in West Sussex, Allsort know that they are unable to access the support they need locally, with Brighton being the only provision available in Sussex.

The West Sussex project is being set up in response to a need for more LGBTU support and awareness in the West Sussex area.

Allsorts Youth Project has been providing high quality services to LGBT and Unsure children and young people in Brighton and Hove since 1999, with 2017 seeing the expansion of its services to West Sussex.

Allsorts works to raise awareness, promote good practice and facilitate the creation of safer and more supportive environments for LGBTU young people in the wider community by:

●      Supporting vulnerable, alienated or marginalized young people in Brighton, Hove, and West Sussex area who are LGBT or unsure of their sexuality and/or gender identity.

●      Delivering peer led homophobia, biphobia and transphobia awareness and anti-bullying workshops in schools, colleges and youth organisations.

●      Providing training for adults and agencies working with young people providing promotional and educational materials (booklets, toolkits, stickers, posters etc).

For more information about the West Sussex project, click here:

Remembering Jill Howell – A Seagulls fan and Samaritan volunteer

On Saturday, January 12 the game between Brighton and Hove Albion and Liverpool FC will take on a special significance.

Jill Howell repping for the Seagulls at FC Barcelona’s stadium, the Nou Camp.
Jill Howell repping for the Seagulls at FC Barcelona’s stadium, the Nou Camp.

THE day will be a tribute to lifelong Seagulls fan and North Stand season ticket holder Jill Howell, who sadly died in October 2017 and all supporters, both home and away, are being asked to help remember her.

Not only was Jill passionate about her football, she also put her heart and soul into supporting other people through her charity work as a Samaritans volunteer at Brighton, Hove and District Samaritans.

For anyone not familiar with what Samaritans volunteers do, they offer a free listening ear to anyone going through a tough time or feeling overwhelmed, for whatever reason.

You can contact them by phone, email, text or by visiting them at Dubarry House, Newtown Road, Hove BN3 6AE. Usual opening hours 10am – 10pm.

It’s free to call Samaritans’ 116 123 number, even from a mobile without credit. It’s confidential, you don’t have to give your name and Samaritans’ number won’t show up on your phone bill.

Jill’s family has agreed to make Saturday’s game a memorial to her by promoting Samaritans’ work across the stadium, in the hope that the day will remind all fans to look out for each other and to be good listeners.

It’s not about feeling you need to fix each other’s problems – it’s just about letting people know you’re there, that you care, and that you’ll be there when they’re ready to talk. Trust your instincts, be brave and have patience – don’t be put off if someone doesn’t want to talk to you first time.

So remember to look out for volunteers from Brighton and Hove’s local branch of Samaritans handing out tips on ways to listen if someone is having a tough time.

You’ll also see Samaritans’ number promoted on the screens before, during and after the game, as well as players and ex-players talking openly about times when they were at their lowest and the people who were there for them. Even matchday mascot Gully will be joining in!

But Saturday isn’t a one-off. Samaritans will keep promoting this message throughout the season, that it’s ok to ask someone how they are doing, whether that’s friends, family, colleagues or fellow supporters, perhaps even the person standing next to you. Just let them say what’s going on in their head. And if you are the one feeling overwhelmed, it’s ok to accept support – people do care and they will listen.

Lisa Rodrigues
Lisa Rodrigues

Lisa Rodrigues, Samaritans Volunteer, Brighton, Hove & District said: “Jill would want to be remembered for how she lived. She often said that Brighton, Hove and District Samaritans and Brighton and Hove Albion could do good work together to help reduce suicide and loneliness. How fitting that today we are coming together in her name to do exactly that. We are extremely grateful to Jill’s sister Jo Howell for helping us make this happen, and to everyone at Brighton and Hove Albion for understanding the importance of being there for one another.” 

You can call Samaritans for free anytime from any phone on 116 123, or call Brighton, Hove and District Samaritans on 01273 772277.

 

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