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Harry and Meghan to visit the city next week

The Duke and Duchess of Sussex are coming to Brighton & Hove.

THE Duke and Duchess of Sussex are to visit to Brighton & Hove next week as part of their first joint official visit to Sussex.

Well-wishers are encouraged to give the couple a warm and colourful welcome when they arrive at the city’s iconic Royal Pavilion following visits to Chichester and Bognor Regis in West Sussex earlier in the day.

Their Royal Highnesses will be met in Brighton & Hove by Her Majesty’s Lord-Lieutenant of East Sussex Peter Field and greeted at the Royal Pavilion by a civic line up including the Mayor of Brighton & Hove, Cllr Dee Simson.

The Duke and Duchess will tour several of the Pavilion’s rooms including the newly restored saloon, learning more about the building’s history and the impact that it had on the social development of Brighton in the 18th century.

Their Royal Highnesses will then visit Survivors’ Network, a charity that supports survivors of sexual violence and abuse in Sussex, speaking with service users, volunteers and staff.

The final engagement of the day will be a visit to JOFF Youth Centre in the coastal town of Peacehaven. The centre is a community hub that offers a range of positive activities, a ‘chill out’ area and music practice room.

Peter Fields, Her Majesty’s Lord-Lieutenant of East Sussex says the Duke and Duchess are looking forward to getting to know more about Sussex and the people who live in  the county.

He said: “Knowing how busy Their Royal Highnesses are, it will be a great pleasure for me to welcome them to East Sussex starting at the Royal Pavilion.”

Cllr Dee Simson
Cllr Dee Simson

Speaking about the visit, Cllr Dee Simson, Mayor of Brighton & Hove said: “It’s an honour to welcome the Duke and Duchess of Sussex to Brighton & Hove on behalf of all our residents. The Royal Pavilion is an iconic palace and this royal visit will become part of its rich history.

“We gladly shared our happy wishes with the couple at the time of their wedding in May and were delighted when they  were conferred the titles the Duke and Duchess of Sussex. We’re incredibly excited the royal couple are coming to our city and hope this will be the first of many visits.”

INTERVIEW: Born to Sparkle – Davina at 50!

From hotel manager to panto Queen, Gertie the Gorgeous, David Pollikett has done it all. Brian Butler talks to him about his drag queen persona, Davina Sparkle, and how he gets an audience to love him.

DAVID Pollikett didn’t always want to be an entertainer. His father wanted to send him to stage school, but the teenager, describing himself as Mr Sensible, decided he needed a trade to keep him in work. So off he went to catering college, later rising through the managerial ranks at the Forte Hotel Group.

How did you get into show business?
“In the mid 1990s I was living in Stevenage, a relatively new town with not many gay people, but the local pub had a quiz night on a Wednesday, hosted by a drag queen. She went on holiday so the quiz was due to be cancelled for a couple of weeks. I told the landlord I could do it – never having done anything like that before,“ he recalls. “I got a wig and a dress, and I was very nervous but it was good fun and after the two weeks they kept me on. The drag name Davina came from a friend in the office who just decided to call me by it.”

After sending many black and white promo photos to entertainment agencies, he started to host ladies’ nights. “Andre Adore and Candi du Barry were doing them, so I joined in.”

He had to buy a PA system and tape deck, which he recalls having to rewind by hand with a pencil to get to the beginning of each backing track. His first solo song was Bobby’s Girl by Susan Maugham. “I was in a leather jacket with a leotard and long boots. My hair was big. I looked like Cher on drugs.”

Having moved to Southampton he started doing gay gigs. “This is alright, I thought. I add new jokes by telling them to myself in a mirror. If I laugh, then they work.”

In 2000 David moved to Brighton to work on the male stripper Adonis Cabaret shows every Saturday night. But he didn’t work on the drag circuit here, instead doing corporate shows, and his beloved ladies’ nights. “You have to be clever to make 200 women laugh. If you’re not on their level, they’ll boo you off the stage. You mustn’t insult them.”

He was then asked by the Queen’s Arms to do shows, and that’s how his drag work in Brighton started.
“I was the cancellation Queen. When a drag queen pulled out of a booking, I got the job, and got my name known.” This led to him being booked in his own right.

A big influence on him was the late great Phil Starr. “He gave me lots of advice on the timing of jokes, and told me to look at the audience at the back of the room not just those at the front. He taught me you can’t win every time, you just got to sing them to death!”

Another big influence was Lily Savage, who taught him to have ‘bite’ and not take prisoners. “I say things people are thinking but don’t say, which is not always politically correct.”

He has strong views about equality and the labels people seem to need to attach to themselves.

Controversially he says:If you want equality, you sometimes have to stop moaning about inequality. That doesn’t mean some injustices aren’t worth fighting for, though. We need to be able to laugh at ourselves but also empower ourselves.”

Another piece of Phil Starr advice: “Don’t shout at your audience. If they’re noisy, stop and look at them and in the end, they’ll stop and listen.”

David has regular bookings at the Queen’s Arms and Legends and loves their afternoon shows. “You arrive and the audience is there waiting for you.”

Work now regularly takes him to Cardiff, Manchester, Great Yarmouth and London. Another string to his bow is an entertainment company which organises tribute dinners, with impersonators of the likes of George Michael, ABBA and Frankie Valli. He stages these in Stevenage, Windsor, Milton Keynes, but significantly not in Brighton as he feels there’s enough entertainment in the city already.

His current preoccupation is with Dine With The Stars, a charity fundraising dinner where the audience eat at tables with their favourite drag queen, who later does a cabaret spot. The event, first created by Barry Nelson, has grown from eight tables and eight acts to 16 acts and an audience of 200. This month’s Dine With The Stars is raising funds for the LGBT Community Safety Forum, a group he says he has lots of respect for.

His other charity work raises funds for Help for Heroes, Macmillan Cancer Support and, along with Maisie Trollette and Miss Jason, he’s an annual visitor to Pattaya to raise much-needed funds there, nowadays for the HIV charity Heart 2000.

What advice would he give his 15-year-old self?  “Keep yourself fit, exercise and stay slim. I’m a big guy and that’s because of my lifestyle – on the road and eating at 4am.”

Who’s up and coming on the Brighton drag scene that he admires? “Pat Clutcher, who is very new, and Stephanie Von Clitz,” he says without hesitation.

“I get paid to entertain people and it’s wonderful. I should maybe have a retirement age in sight, but not yet. It’s a blessing I’ve got and I know it.”

To book tickets for Dine with the Stars costing £29 each telephone 01273 725331 or pop into the Rainbow Hub at 93 St James Street, Brighton BN2 1TP.


David will be celebrating his 50th birthday at Charles Street on Sunday, October 14 starting at 7pm. Entry is free but donations will be gratefully received for the Wedding Wishing Well Foundation, a cause close to David’s heart. Artists appearing will include: Sally Vate, Patti O’Dors, Mrs Moore, Jennie Castell, Miss Penny, Jason Thorpe, Suspiciously Elvis, Cherry Liquor, Heart & Soul, Miss Disney, Pat Clutcher, Christopher Howard, Stephanie Von Clitz, Spice and Miss Jason.

More info:
www.davinasparkle.com 
Twitter: @DavinaSparkle
Facebook: Davina Sparkle

OPINION: Sam Trans Man – On the road

Dr Sam Hall
Dr Sam Hall

Dr Samuel Hall on how parenting is a privilege, and sending your kids out into the big wide world.

I’VE just lost a weekend. Setting off on Friday night with my eldest child on a road trip to deliver her to university, we stayed overnight with friends in the north, and then drove further north still, to Scotland, arriving in Edinburgh on Saturday afternoon. One carload, including bike, one food shop, one emergency bedding dash (who knew students got double beds these days?!) and several hundred pounds later, I left my progeny in Edinburgh and drove home again via another old friend’s place in Northumberland.

Arriving back in Brighton on Sunday night, I felt like a different person. Something had shifted within, snapped, and I felt lighter. But also bereft.

Going to university is a watershed moment in their life, in my life. This child of mine has an opportunity that remains the domain of the privileged. My child is white, English speaking, from a middle class, well educated family. They have had better life chances than so many of their peers already. I feel lucky to have this to give my children, but am also aware of their privilege, and believe that they are too. I wasn’t. At 18 I had no idea what it meant. We didn’t speak the language of equality in my narrow Catholic worldview. Especially not in relation to the gender divide. I was raised to believe that women should marry and bear children, and stay at home to raise them. That’s what the women in my family did. My mother gave up a nursing career before she qualified in order to get married. I found this extraordinary. I grew up knowing I wanted to become a doctor, and with that in mind I don’t suppose I ever entertained the idea of giving up my career for the sake of the family. It was out of the question.

And yet I still very much wanted to have children. I did it relatively young compared to many of my colleagues; I had my first child at 28, the second at 31, and the third at 34. I would have had more. I loved having children. I struggled to give birth and had to have C sections with each of them, something that always puzzled me as I never imagined that would be the case. I breastfed my children for as long as I could, and really enjoyed being the primary carer for a heady six months before returning to work each time.

When I returned to work as a junior doctor, it was hard to integrate the ‘me’ I was at home with my work ‘self’. Away from the hospital I was relaxed and totally immersed in caring for a small baby, later ones with older sibling(s), enjoying the miracle that had grown inside my body and was now present as a separate, whole and yet totally dependent person in my life. One who filled my every waking thought. Including my hours at work. As a new parent it’s undoubtedly harder to concentrate at work, or indeed anywhere away from your child, and I longed to bring the baby in to the workplace just to reconnect. With myself.

As children grow older you learn to integrate yourself a bit more, and I can see people around me at work who are also parents, doing the same thing. There’s something about being a parent that gives you a toolkit you can’t get another way. It doesn’t matter how you come to be a parent, or what route you took, nor does it matter how long you’re in the role for in a child’s life; parenting is a skill, and most of us don’t acquire it that easily. Of course you can learn good parenting skills whilst you’re still a child yourself, if you’re lucky, from your own caregivers. How many of us find ourselves behaving just like our own parents, in times of distress as well as joy, anger and sadness, laughing with the same sense of humour and folding our washing a particular way, or not at all.

Parenting, as I think I have said before, is a privilege. It helps you to be less selfish, and it means you’re obliged to share with other people who are parenting. There is a constant need to talk things through, compare notes, take advice and finesse our skills. Keeping up to date with teens is the worst bit yet as far as I’m concerned. I don’t want to be seen as too strict or old fashioned, but I do want my children to feel safe and to know where the boundaries are.

This last point is one that I’m forced to rethink as a result of this weekend just gone. I no longer have the right to parent my child. That stopped on their 18th birthday, and even though I did become aware of it at the time, that was a year and a half ago, and it’s this road trip that’s brought it home to roost. The fact is, as a parent you’re owed nothing, yet owe everything, you must give thanks and praise, but never expect it in return.

You need to be selfless and generous without expectation, and in the final analysis ‘let go’ of a new adult. Sending them out into the world with only hope. Hope that they are okay. Hope that you have taught them enough. Hope that they have sufficient ‘adulting’ skills, hope that they learn what it is to try and to fail; to try and to succeed; to laugh, cry and feel deeply whilst they are alive, and to consider that they too might one day be the right person to raise another one.

I’m nothing short of humbled by my experiences of parenting, and whilst I know I’m far from a perfect one, I also know that I’m good enough, and that’s all that matters. This is what I learned on my road trip.

FOOD REVIEW: Afternoon Tea on Wheels in Vintage Style

Owner Peter Waldron and the magnificent Regency Routemaster Bus
Driver Peter Waldron and the magnificent Regency Routemaster Bus

If you were there for this year’s Brighton Pride Parade, or if you’ve been in town over the last couple of months, you may have noticed the striking sight of a beautifully restored 1960’s routemaster bus cruising the streets of Brighton, Hove and Rottingdean.

IF so, you were looking at a new and welcome addition to the Brighton and Hove food and drink scene which is both a visitor attraction as well as something fun to enjoy if you live in town.

On a sunny Friday afternoon a friend and I went along to Pool Valley where the afternoon tea tours depart daily Wednesday through Sunday.

Two things struck me immediately. The first was the very personable way we were greeted as we boarded, with the three members of the team – our driver, our waiter and our tour commentator – all welcoming us and giving us a bit of background on the bus and the journey ahead of us.

The second is the really great job they’ve made of the interior of the bus, which has been lovingly fitted out in a plush yet clean-lined retro style, creating a quirky and stylish space for up to 42 guests seated at tables of two and four people.

My friend and I are partial to an afternoon tipple so not surprisingly we opted for the aptly named Gin Lover’s Tour.

The bus started up and headed east towards Hove, and shortly after, two deliciously refreshing pink gin cocktails arrived at our table.

As we cruised through town, taking in the sights from the covered top deck, we enjoyed a delightfully tasty tea which included three types of savoury sandwiches followed by a selection of fine pastries and other sweet things.

I particularly enjoyed my smoked salmon sandwiches with lemon and caper butter, and later a very delicious carrot and pistachio cake, while my friend was very taken with his honey roast ham and mustard fingers and also a lovely selection of macaroons.

Beyond these all of the savoury and sweet elements were of high quality and mainly sourced from local suppliers.

To top it off we finished with a classic buttermilk scone with clotted cream and strawberry jam. Oh yes.

Along with our second gin cocktails which had arrived in timely fashion, we ordered Earl Grey and English breakfast tea respectively to help the food down. Both were full of flavour and refreshing.

Of course we were riding through town on top of a vintage bus so china cups and saucers were understandably not an option, but the smart branded flasks the tea was served in worked well, as did the non-slip table mats.

All in all the guided tour lasted about an hour and a half, winding through town before heading out to Rottingdean and then back via the Marina and Madeira Drive. Along the way our guide’s quirky and sometimes camp commentary kept us all informed as well as chuckling.

This was lovely way to see the city and a unique, relaxing and highly enjoyable take on afternoon tea.

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