Peer Action, the HIV peer support and social group charity for people living with HIV in Brighton & Hove have appointed a new chair and have announced a relaunch of the charity.
Gareth Lloyd
New Chair Gareth Lloyd previously worked in the city. He brings with him business and legal experience and currently works locally for a national charity.
New trustees have been appointed to the board to help improve the charity’s reach and increase peer interaction.
The complete board now is Adriana Naves-Silva, Aileen Norbury, Gareth Lloyd, Michael Nelson and Terence Clarke.
Previous chair Mike Nelson stood down at the end of his term and continues as treasurer/fundraiser for a further term.
A new website will shortly be launched with a revised look and the charity intends to continue to offer alternative therapies, yoga, swimming, educational and social events.
Gareth said:“I aim to expand upon the firm foundations we have built up over the last three years and develop the charity within the community.”
The first person many LGBT+people meet when they arrive in the city is the bar person at their local LGBT+ venue. These gatekeepers to the community provide an important role both befriending and signposting new arrivals to the scene. Gscene finds out a bit more about them and what makes them tick.
Matt Richards works at the popular Bedford Tavern, the community pub on the border between Brighton and Hove. He has won the Golden Handbag for Favourite Bar Boy three times and been runner-up twice in the last five years.
Where do you come from?Guildford in Surrey.
What brought you to Brighton? I moved here with my then boyfriend as we loved the place! That was 21 years ago.
Oddest thing you’ve been asked for?A guy asked to buy my underwear. I politely declined, they were my favourites.
What’s the worst kind of punter?I love all customers obviously?!?
What do you do when it’s quiet in the bar?I really enjoy chatting with people. The quieter periods are as important as busy times. It gives you time to learn about your customers and they you. Also if Adam (the boss) is reading this I do lots of cleaning and tidying!
Do you know the difference between Ale and Beer? Ale is more flavoursome and fragrant, whereas beer/lager is crisp and refreshing.
Can you pull a pint?Of course! Perfect head always!
Do you prefer to be shaken or stirred?Now that’s personal. I love a good shimmy, so somewhere in between.
Whats your favourite tipple?I have a new-found love for gin. We have started stocking an extensive range with complimenting tonics. I’m enjoying myself working through the menu.
What makes you roll your eyes?Bad manners and people who think they are always right.
Are those really your photos on Grindr? I’m not on it (shame Ed.)
What makes a perfect barman/girl? Personality. You can teach a person how to pour a drink, but to give good customer service balanced with banter is something you’ve got or you haven’t.
Where do you like to go out when you’re not working?I go to lunch quite a lot, but also like a good pub. I really enjoy an afternoon bevvy. I go to the Brighton Tavern often as I used to work there before the Bedford, so have lots of friends there. The Grosvenor is another as its close by and friendly. Night time there is only one choice… Bar Broadway! I love a camp tune.
Tell us a secret about yourself? A lady never divulges!
What’s your nickname behind the bar?Tilly (my drag persona for Easter Bonnet).
Are you single or in a relationship?I’ve been with my husband Aaron for over ten years. We got married two years ago.
“HIV isn’t the worst thing, it’s everything else that goes around it – from stigma, to financial issues”
Terrence Higgins Trust (THT) are to host a professional conference on supporting the first generation growing older with HIV.
One in three people with HIV is now aged over 50, and new diagnoses among older people have nearly doubled in the last decade – meaning health and social care sectors are entering uncharted territory.
To make sure health and social care professionals are prepared, THT is hosting a conference to increase awareness of the needs and challenges for those growing older with HIV.
Speaking ahead of the conference, 52 year-old Simon Horvat-Marcovic has shared his experiences of living with HIV in his 50s, from dealing with stigma to homelessness and financial issues.
Simon Horvat-Marcovic
“I’d been living in Camden for 16 years, but in 2015 I was made redundant, I was going through a divorce and had two cancer scares – so found myself homeless. I sofa surfed all over for 18 months, and then the day I was diagnosed with HIV was also the first day I slept on the street,” said Simon.
“HIV, believe it or not, wasn’t the worst thing to happen to me that year – it was everything else that went around it – my housing, my mental health, my other health worries.
“Medically I’m great now, I see my doctors regularly and have health check ups, but outside of that, my mental health and home life, it’s not always that great. For us, the first people growing older with HIV, we’re going into the unknown, and there is lot we all need to learn.
“If it wasn’t for organisations like Terrence Higgins Trust, I’d be dead now – not because my HIV would have killed me, but because I would have killed me. I know issues around depression, housing and finances, and stigma affect a lot of older people with HIV, so more health and social care professionals need the skills and knowledge of HIV so they can support us as we get older.”
THT found that poverty, loneliness and social care are major concerns for older people living with HIV, and earlier this year warned of a social care ‘timebomb’ ahead, following their groundbreaking report, Uncharted Territory.
The report found 58% of over 50s living with HIV were on or below the poverty line, and 82% experienced moderate to high levels of loneliness – three times more than the general population of the same age.
The ‘Caring for a generation’ conference, on June 12, will support service providers and professionals from all sectors to understand the issues faced by this ageing population, and how to support them.
Speaker with HIV aged 50 and over, like Simon, will share their experiences and join leading academics from Imperial College London and Manchester University in workshops and tutorials throughout the day.
The conference is being hosted by the pioneering Health, Wealth and Happiness Project, from THT, which focuses on the needs of people over 50 living with HIV, offering tailored services to improve their emotional, physical and financial wellbeing.
Clive Blowes
Clive Blowes, National Co-ordinator for Health, Wealth and Happiness Project, said: “Every day at THT we work with people over 50 living with HIV just like Simon.
“We know that isolation can be a major issue, and that many people are worried about having to go into a care home, changes to their benefits, housing issues and relationships and dating. Our report found that eight out of ten of people with HIV aged over 50 are concerned about whether they will be able to access adequate social care in the future.
“This conference will help provide professionals and service providers with up-to-date knowledge of what it’s like growing older with HIV, and provide support and advice on how they can help this new generation of people live well.”
Caring for a generation conference takes places on Monday. June 12, 2017, from 9.30am until 4pm at NCVO, Society Building, 8 All Saints Street, London N1 9RL
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