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BOOK REVIEW: Upstream: Mary Oliver

Upstream: Selected Essays 

Mary Oliver 

“In the beginning I was so young and such a stranger to myself I hardly existed. I had to go out into the world and see it and hear it and react to it, before I knew at all who I was, what I was, what I wanted to be.”

So begins Upstream, a collection of essays in which poet Mary Oliver reflects on her willingness, to lose herself within the beauty and mysteries of both the natural world and the world of literature. Emphasing the significance of her childhood “friend” Walt Whitman, through whose work she first understood that a poem is a temple, “a place to enter, and in which to feel,” and who encouraged her to vanish into the world of her writing.

Upstream follows Oliver as she contemplates the pleasure of artistic labour, her boundless curiosity for the flora and fauna that surround her, and the responsibility she has inherited from the great thinkers and writers of the past, to live thoughtfully, intelligently, and to observe with passion. Oliver positions not just herself upstream but us as well as she encourages us all to keep moving, to lose ourselves in the awe of the unknown, and to give power and time to the creative and whimsical urges that live within us

Her word is simple, startling and surprisingly complex, unwinding like a twisted silken ribbon, uncoiling to three or four times its length in your mind with the softest breath of release. She’s an inspirational as she is challenging and most of all her work is still. It sits there, inviting attention, but not begging, or shouting, just still, like a pool of water, and as deep and unexpected. Mary Oliver is an antidote to the corrosive poison of our stressful empty seemingly pointless lives and an hour in the company of her carefully crafted and hewn essays reminds one not only of the utter pleasure of just being, but also the unlimited potential that all of us hold, just by being us.

This is a sweet and tender collection of essays looking at Oliver’s life, from her childhood solitude but never loneliness to her mature reflections on change  and sense of place, although utterly authentically American in content and voice, this is a very British book at heart, with strong thunderous echos of Wordsworth’s relationship with the landscape around him and within his culture. From Wordsworth she learns that one’s true abode is made “not of beams and nails but of existence itself — is all of earth, with no door, no address separate from oceans or stars.” with her writing she attempts to emulate him and show us the way forward.

Out now, treat yourself.

For more info or to buy the book see the publishers website here: 

Free entry to Royal Pavilion this Sunday

This Sunday, January 15, from 10am – 4.30pm entry to the Royal Pavilion is completely free of charge.

Annual Free Day, Royal Pavilion
Sunday January 15, 10am-4.30pm
(free admission, drop-in)

To celebrate the purchase of the Royal Pavilion by the town of Brighton in 1850, admission charges are waived one day a year.  Go along and meet George IV and members of his court, as RPM staff don Regency costume and tell tales of George’s day!

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A Regency Dandy: Visitor Services Officer Darren Terry
A Regency Dandy: Visitor Services Officer Darren Terry

Brighton Museum Free Day
Sunday January 15
10am – 5pm (free admission, drop-in)

A series of monthly free days at Brighton Museum are also being trialled this season. If you haven’t visited in a while or the Museum is new to you? If you live outside Brighton & Hove then these days are a great opportunity to (re)acquaint yourself with the Museum and view their latest displays and activities.

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Brighton & Hove residents – don’t forget you can enjoy half-price admission to the Royal Pavilion and Preston Manor with children going free, and free entry to Brighton Museum all year round!

 

Polish ‘video’ couple to marry in Madeira

Polish gay couple Jakub Kwiecinski and Dawid Mycek hit the headlines last year when a home-made video of them lipsynching the Roxette song Some other Summer went viral after the group included it on the their fan website.

Jakub Kwiecinski and Dawid Mycek
Jakub Kwiecinski and Dawid Mycek

They went on to make a similar video lipsynching to Niebiesko-zielone, a track from the Polish Gay Iconic singer Beata Kozidrak, but then the threats began. The pair suffered personal threats and right-wing groups in Poland called for Beata’s concerts to be boycotted and all because of the video.

Not deterred by the threats, the couple decided they were going to get married. This is not possible in Poland so they chose the Portuguese island of Madeira to tie the knot.

The local register office on the island initially rejected their request but after hearing about the homophobia the couple had suffered in Poland change their decision.

David said: “If we couldn’t get married in our country, we wanted to choose a place that is close to our hearts. 

There are countries where it is easier to get marriage permission, but we chose Madeira because we fell in love with the Island a few years ago, and since then we visit it every year.”

Their first application was rejected due to lack of paperwork, because Polish authorities make it difficult for homosexual couples to get married abroad and are reluctant to release the necessary documents.

The letter giving the boys permission to marry in Madeira

Portuguese law, however, allows renouncement from the requirements of the law in exceptional circumstances.

Jacob said: “We read about this opportunity and decided to appeal. In a letter we told our story and described the scale of hate and threats we had suffered and passed on news stories about us from the Polish and foreign press.

After a few weeks of waiting, we got the news that they had changed their decision and we receive permission to get married without the missing documents.

It is ironic that our dream ceremony on Madeira, which is planned for this summer, we will owe to the actions of the people who hate us and have persecuted us.”

Here is the boys latest video:

HIV nurse historian undertakes new research project

Dr Tommy Dickinson, a nurse historian at King’s College London is currently working on a project that is exploring the nursing care of people with HIV/AIDS before antiviral medication was readily available.

Dr Tommy Dickinson
Dr Tommy Dickinson

The project begins in 1981, with the first reported AIDS case in the UK, and continues until 1996, when the evidence base for antiviral medication became explicit, shifting HIV/AIDS from a terminal illness to a manageable chronic disease.

Whilst there have been histories written about HIV/AIDS, there has been almost nothing on the actual nursing work that was done caring for these people.

He is seeking people who would be willing to talk to him if you: 

♦ Were diagnosed with HIV/AIDS between 1981 and 1996

OR

♦ Had a loved one die from HIV/AIDS between 1981 and 1996.

♦ Also/alternatively, do any of you have diaries, letters, photos or any other interesting material relating to HIV/AIDS during this period?

If you would either like to be interviewed, or have some material that may be of interest, then contact Tommy, with no obligation to continue if you decide not to.

Email:  tommy.dickinson@kcl.ac.uk

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