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TRAVEL: The Sea Gypsies of Sifnos

We thought that we knew all about the Greek Islands of the Cyclades, having visited Mykonos, Paros, Ios, Santorini, Milos and yes we were told that they are all different, but after a while they do tend to look somewhat similar.

Sifnos
Sifnos

Until, that is, we went to Sifnos. A tiny and little known island not too far from Milos but way off the major tourist trails, which has just a couple of ferries per day which bring all the islands supplies as well as the few visitors.

It seems that Sifnos is owned and run by just five families, everyone knows everyone else and no one locks their houses or cars.

Kamares
Kamares

Arriving in the pretty little port of Kamares, it’s the only port, you are aware of exactly how different this island is. It is extremely mountainous. The harbour front is pretty standard with tourist shops, cafes and car hire places, all owned by the same family, right behind this little port village is a mountain range which you can drive up. The view from the top is spectacular but not recommended if you don’t like steep hill climbs with vertical drops on one side.

There are quite a few decent four and five-star hotels for such a small island  but on our first night we stayed in what can only be described as a backpacker’s hostel, cheap but not particularly cheerful.

Apollonia
Apollonia

Next day we drove to the ‘capital’ Apollonia, a slightly larger village of 870 inhabitants, to look for another place to stay. There is one travel agent, owned of course by the same lady who owned the hotel we had just left.  Here we met Nick a most helpful man; he knew everything about the island and the accommodation.

Vahti
Vahti

He found us a beautiful house, Villa Delenia in a fabulous little seaside village called Vathi. This really had the wow factor, just 200m from a very quiet sandy beach, with little restaurants sitting almost in the water. There are several small bars and just two tiny shops.

Villa Delenia
Villa Delenia

The house had two bedrooms, two terraces, large garden etc., designed for five, we had it all to ourselves. We fell in love with Vahti and the Villa Delenia, the peace, tranquillity and general beauty of the place is quite simply gorgeous.

Everything about Sifnos is small, it has an area of only 75 sq km. What on the map seemed a long way, from the port to the main ‘town’ was in fact just 8km and 10 minute drive. With a population of just 2,625 there are no less than 365 churches, one for every day of the year.

Touring Sifnos is easy, just a few roads, well signposted and hardly any traffic.  Although small there is a lot to see and enjoy here, there are many headlands and lovely bays there are nine beaches, all sandy and gently shelving, but once you have found perfection as we had you really don‘t want to look anywhere else.

We were told that we had to visit Kastro, one of the most fascinating places on Sifnos. The village has been inhabited for over 3000 years and was at one time the capital of the island, its well worth a visit.

Platis Gialos
Platis Gialos

We were invited to lunch at Restaurant Cyclades at Platis Gialos one of the main beaches, the restaurant was owned by the same lady that owned the car hire company.  Everyone really is related to everyone.

Sitting quietly enjoying our lunch, nearly always fish straight from the Aegean, we overheard English being quietly spoken on a table nearby.  They were a family from Mere in darkest Wiltshire, all of us being so far from home in a little restaurant in a far-flung island we naturally started chatting.

Andy and Sheelagh with their two beautiful grown up daughters had flown out to Athens, bought a boat and were simply sailing around the Greek Islands.  The girls, one a doctor and one an accountant, had just a short time with their parents but Andy, a retired Naval Commander and Sheelagh a retired BA purser where simply sailing where the mood took them.

The Sea Gypsies
The Sea Gypsies

We christened them the sea gypsies and although not very keen sailors ourselves rather envied them their relaxed nomadic seafaring life.

It’s a small world as it very quickly became apparent that whilst we had never met, we had mutual friends and apparently had been at the same party in Hove in the early 80’s, but we don’t need to go into details about that party.

Sifnos is quite simply beautiful, no one has heard of it, let’s keep it that way.

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Gay chorus appoint new musical director

Actually Gay Men’s Chorus (AGMC) appoint Samuel Cousins as their as their new Musical Director, to lead them into an exciting new decade, with his choral experience and boundless enthusiasm.

Samuel Cousins
Samuel Cousins

After a recruitment process involving the complete Chorus, everyone is very excited about the appointment and eager to start singing together again, following a short break after their successful tenth anniversary show in May.

Samuel is no stranger to AGMC having joined the Chorus earlier this year, primarily to sing but was always keen to be involved with the musical team.

He brings a wealth of both musical and performing arts experience to the position, after he previously formed, built up and was MD for a 125 strong choir at University of Winchester, he was also MD for Brentwood Operatic society, worked as a vocal tutor, as well as starting the University of Winchester Chamber Orchestra.

With past productions including Guys and Dolls and Jekyll and Hyde under his belt and having arranged for exciting and eclectic musical tastes, Samuel is the perfect fit for AGMC.

A spokesperson for the AGMC, said: “The Chorus is looking forward to embracing the changes that come with a new MD but the fun, high quality music and essentially the essence of Actually will remain, as will the breadth and challenge that the Chorus and audiences love.”

After accepting the appointment,  Samuel said: “I am thrilled to be offered this exciting opportunity to work as Musical Director of AGMC and look forward sharing my unresting passion for music with the Chorus, both in regular productions and within the wider LGBT community.”

At a rehearsal this week, Chorus co-founder and Musical Director for the past decade, Jason Pimblett presented his successor with his conductor’s baton, saying: “The Chorus have made an excellent choice with Samuel, I will certainly be in the audience supporting them in the future and wish Samuel every success.”

With the new term starting on Thursday July 7, AGMC are now working towards shows for Halloween and Christmas (dates to be announced) and looking forward to performing at the World Aids Day concert in December.

For more information about AGMC, click here:

BOOK REVIEW: Our Young Man

Edmund-White

Our Young Man

Edmund White

Some authors don’t need an introduction; White is one of these, his latest book covering the life of a gorgeous Frenchman, Guy, as he goes from industrial city to the top of the modelling profession in New York City, becoming the darling of Fire Island’s gay community. Like Wilde’s Dorian Grey, Guy never seems to age; at thirty-five he is still modelling, still enjoying lavish gifts from older men – though their attentions always come at a price. Ambivalently, Guy lets them believe, driven especially by the memory of growing up poor, until he finds he needs the lie to secure not only wealth, but love itself. Surveying the full spectrum of gay amorous life through the disco era and into the age of AIDS this book is a tour de force of delicate narrative tension held up to the light and prised open to our minds. White is delicious, his prose wrapping itself through and into the story like embroidery made of glass, all transparent, brittle and  sharp.

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This is a throbbing candid, piercingly erotic, breathtakingly intimate story which hides behind nothing but its own delusions. It’s mirrors and smoke again for White, a theme he loves, and the way intention, direction, desire and fate all combine to present the world to us,  and this books is him at his very best.

I was seriously impressed, once again. Treat yourself.

Recommended.

For more info or to buy the book see the publishers website here: 

Out now £16.99

Sussex Beacon take Golden Crown

The Sussex Beacon voted Brighton’s favourite HIV organisation at the Golden Handbags Awards.

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On Sunday, June 12, 2016 organisations from across Brighton’s LGBT communities came together for the Golden Handbags Awards.

The awards ceremony, held annually at the Hilton Brighton Metropole Hotel, seeks to recognise those people and organisations that work tirelessly to make Brighton’s LGBT scene vibrant, exciting and unique.

Online voting for the awards took place throughout April and May by the readers of Gscene Magazine.

The Sussex Beacon won the Golden Handbag for Brighton’s Favourite HIV Charity receiving the award from Chief Superintendent Nev Kemp the Divisional Commander for Brighton and Hove at Sussex Police.

Simon Dowe, Chief Executive at The Sussex Beacon. says: “It is a great honour to be awarded the Golden Handbag and be seen as Brighton’s favourite HIV charity. The award recognises the hard work and dedication of all our staff and volunteers who work to support people living with HIV.”

The Sussex Beacon charity provides specialist care and support for men, women and families living with HIV. They promote independence and improve health and wellbeing by providing inpatient and outpatient services.

Based in Brighton, which has the highest proportion of people living with HIV outside of London, their centre is open 365 days a year. The charity helps people manage the everyday realities of living with this life-long condition that has no cure.

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For more information about the Sussex Beacon, click here: 

Lunch Positive celebrate seventh birthday

Lunch Positive celebrated their seventh anniversary with a picnic in Dorset Gardens on Saturday, June 11.

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Friends and supporters from other LGBT and HIV organisations joined Lunch Positive volunteers and clients sharing wonderful food prepared by Lunch Positive volunteers.

Officials present included The Mayor of Brighton and Hove, Cllr Pete West, Green Convener Cllr Phelim Mac Cafferty and Queens Park Councillors Adrian Morris and Daniel Chapman.

Cllr Phelim Mac Cafferty
Cllr Phelim Mac Cafferty

Phelim said: “I was delighted to be a part of Lunch Positive’s 7th birthday at the weekend. Lunch Positive is a truly remarkable organisation that provides support and healthy, nutritious food. Although they work throughout the year through rain and shine to provide a nutritious hot meal once a week for people with HIV, they are much more than that. They provide a listening ear, company, guidance, a place to stop and breathe.

“Healthy food is so important for people who aren’t well, and the lunches provide a valuable opportunity for people who might otherwise feel isolated to come together.  Gary Pargeter and his team of staff and volunteers work so incredibly hard to provide a vital service which is open, friendly and welcoming to all.  It’s a shining example that challenges the stigma of HIV and works to build a strong sense of community for people who are HIV+”.  

Gary Pargeter
Gary Pargeter

Gary Pargeter, Service Manager, said: “Everyone who uses the lunch club and volunteers at Lunch Positive are so grateful for the support we receive from all corners of the community, and it was fantastic to celebrate our 7th birthday together. 120 friends and supporters visited during the day. It is so encouraging to know that the wider community values the need for community groups to provide wide ranging social, emotional and practical support to people with HIV. Our volunteers are inspirational, highly motivated and extremely caring people, all to the benefit of the people they come into contact with. Thank you to everyone who came along to celebrate these things with us.”

Every Friday Lunch Positive offer a healthy, enjoyable meal and a safe, supportive space for all people living with and affected by HIV.

They open from midday for tea or coffee and a chat, and from 1 o’clock they serve a healthy starter, main course, vegetarian option and dessert.

You’re welcome to go along any time during opening hours – and there’s no need to ‘book’ ahead.

For more information about Lunch Positive, click here:

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Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus sing for Orlando dead

“You may take our lives, but you will never take our voice”.

Brighton Gay Men's Chorus
Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus

Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus have recorded a video for the victims and families of those massacred in the biggest mass killing in US history, at Pulse Nightclub in Orlando, Florida.

On the video the chorus sing the Whitney Houston classic, One moment in time.

Paul Charlton, Chair of Brighton Gay Men's Chorus
Paul Charlton, Chair of Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus

Paul Charlton, Chair of the Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus, said: “On behalf of the Brighton Gay Men’s Chorus in the UK we send our love and support to Orlando

“To the victims, their families and loved ones and to our brothers and sisters in song in the Orlando Gay Chorus

“You may take our lives but you will never take our voice.”

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